Finally, FINALLY I can say I have done this. It took me forever but I can finally be friends with men and not think they are after something else and not worry that I might be after something else. Friends are friends…why should it matter if they have a penis? :)
shannendee's Life List
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1. Get my degree
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2. Learn to line dance
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3. Lose 30 more pounds
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4. Stop dreaming and start doing
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5. Visit England
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6. Have sex on a beach
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7. Learn from my mistakes
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8. Go to New York during the Christmas season
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9. go someplace I have never been once a year.
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10. Swim with dolphins
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11. Learn to love myself
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12. Ride a horse on a beach
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13. Go on a roadtrip with no destination in mind
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14. Go to Germany
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15. run a 5k marathon
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16. have something published
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17. Read the "1001 Books You Must Read Before You Die"
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18. Volunteer for something
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19. Go on a retreat
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20. Do my best and stop worrying if that is good enough
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21. Learn about my past lives
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22. Be a better mom
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23. Visit all 50 states
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24. Learn to cook
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25. Stop feeling inferior to everybody else
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26. Be healthy physically, mentally, and emotionally
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27. dance like nobody's watching
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28. Pamper myself once a week
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29. Learn to say no
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30. Learn how to live and not just exist
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31. Make love in the rain
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32. Go everywhere I am invited, if possible
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33. simplify my life
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34. Spend a whole day at a salon
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35. Go to professional football game
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36. Learn to play tennis
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37. Get a backstage pass to a concert
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38. Go to Paris
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How I did it: THIS time I decided there was no digging myself out of the huge whole I had created with my finances. SO I decided to just declare bankruptcy and get it over with. Granted my name will be mud for a little bit but in the end, it will all be worth it. I am starting a whole new life...why not start it new in that respect too? It feels GREAT to know that I don't owe all that debt. and I have so learned my lesson when it comes to money. Read how I did it…
How I did it: Well after my last failed relationship, I took some time off for myself. I had been married for 15 years and went right into another relationship. I didn't know who I was without someone, basically. SO I learned all about myself for about 10 months and then when I DID meet the man of my dreams, I was ready for him. Once I fell in love and felt what TWO way love was like, the past didn't even matter. I came to peace with everything that ha… Read how I did it…
How I did it: Well I fell in love with someone who happens to have a very steady job...I gave up my whole world and moved to Vegas to be with him...since then I haven't had to work and everything is fantastic. Read how I did it…
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Okay so I am not alone but I AM moving out of state to be with the man of my dreams…and I have no intention of not being with him in 3 years so this goal is kind of null and void now. :)
Yes this was worth it….granted it wasn’t very romantic, as it was in the middle of an outdoor mall BUT it was a kiss given to me by the man of my dreams….and that is all that matters. <3
