Some learning experiences hurt. While my marriage was short-lived, I am still a believer in finding a life partner and making the commitment. It is not just some ceremony; being married is about learning how to exist with and for someone else. It requires you to reach inside yourself and offer your best, be a little less selfish, a little more understanding, and a whole lot more open to acceptance, compromise, and change.
shemoves's Life List
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1. create a website for my travels
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2. become better at small-talk
2,064 people -
3. backpack through Europe
5,217 people -
4. backpack through India
1 cheer15 people -
5. backpack through South America
148 people -
6. backpack through Central America
1 cheer26 people -
7. backpack through East & Southern Africa
1 person -
8. backpack through Southeast Asia
37 people -
9. backpack through the Middle East
1 cheer10 people -
10. get a tattoo that has a significant meaning
1 cheer654 people -
11. get in touch with people I have lost touch with
122 people -
12. sculpt wicked biceps
1 cheer4 people -
13. own a grand piano
136 people -
14. donate money and/or time to a worthy cause
1 person -
15. ride a camel
1 cheer512 people -
16. paint a room red
9 people -
17. exercise at least 5 times a week
1 cheer43 people -
18. write in a journal regularly.
9 people -
19. grow fresh herbs
2 cheers15 people -
20. Give blood
1 cheer3,075 people -
21. record a song (just one!)
39 people -
22. be happy with my body
690 people -
23. learn yoga
2,782 people -
24. get a masters degree
1 cheer3,101 people -
25. Go skydiving
1 cheer7,728 people -
26. live in a foreign country
2,517 people -
27. learn to play Debussy's "Claire de Lune" on the piano
1 cheer432 people -
28. learn a foreign language
1,281 people -
29. run a marathon
1 cheer12,474 people -
30. become a PADI certified scuba diver
1 cheer9 people -
31. get in shape
10,217 people -
32. find a spiritual path that feels right to me
1 cheer4 people -
33. spend more time with people I care about
81 people -
34. learn to ride a motorcycle
1 cheer1,903 people -
35. get an attitude adjustment and stop hating winter
1 cheer1 person -
36. Learn to Salsa
1,413 people -
37. learn how to drive stick-shift
4,526 people -
38. Buy a House
1 cheer13,863 people -
39. Floss Every Day
1,264 people -
40. Worry less.
4,778 people -
41. eat healthier
11,041 people -
42. write a book
1 cheer30,180 people -
43. publish my photography in a magazine
1 cheer2 people
Recent entries
There’s a saying that goes something like, “If you know the WHY, you can overcome any HOW.” What does that have to do with saving money? What is it YOU want to save for? Is it an early retirement filled with days of endless relaxation? Is it the purchase of your dream house, or the sexy sports car you’ve been eyeing for months? For me, it was the goal of saving to fulfill my most extravagant dream – of traveling around the world, wafting my way through country after country, and basking in the culture and charm that each destination bestows. Find your WHY. And you’ll find the motivation to make the changes that need to be made.
