After 3 years of looking and umming and arghing and one failed attempt to purchase, an offer has been accepted on a house that as each day passes I’m loving more and more. I’ve been in this position before on another house and the survey came back with so many faults that I had to pull out, I really don’t want this to happen with this one as it’s too perfect. So I’m crossing my fingers that luck is on my side and that the one problem I can forsee won’t appear, which is the current owners are buying a newbuild and their property won’t be ready until december, and if its still not ready by the end of january my mortgage won’t be valid and I’ll lose a lot of money.
siani's Life List
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1. make a tapestry design for my grandmother
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2. write a book and have it published
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3. Let love find me
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4. Find a career that I love
3 entries . 6 cheers190 people -
5. fit into my black dress
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6. get a phd
4 cheers2,790 people -
7. live by the sea
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8. own my own home
2 entries . 3 cheers1,376 people -
9. exercise regularly
1 entry . 1 cheer10,560 people -
10. wear more skirts
3 entries . 5 cheers133 people -
11. learn to snowboard
1 entry . 2 cheers2,451 people -
12. set up my own website
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13. open a bookshop
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14. Write a business plan
1 entry . 1 cheer129 people -
15. write more letters
3 cheers1,527 people -
16. learn to garden
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17. take a chance
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18. Be more sociable
1 entry . 1 cheer715 people -
19. Figure out how to communicate with people so they understand what I'm saying
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20. Make a quilt
2 cheers1,092 people -
21. make christmas cards
2 entries . 2 cheers10 people -
22. buy original art
2 cheers89 people -
23. learn how to frame pictures
1 entry12 people -
24. become more flexible
1 cheer497 people -
25. Drive a Rally car
1 cheer48 people -
26. join a book club
1 cheer427 people -
27. learn italian
2 cheers5,739 people -
28. do more cross stitch
1 entry20 people -
29. chase a tornado
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30. put what's on my mind out into the world so I can't take it back or change it
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31. read more
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32. lose 7 pounds
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33. make christmas gifts of some sort
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34. grow in confidence
1 cheer2 people
Whether I’ve been successful in this will be put to the test tomorrow! I’m starting a new job! For the last four years I’ve worked with the same people and for the first 2 years I hardly spoke, they thought me weird :( But something happened (it might have something to do with getting drunk at the xmas party!)and I started speaking and the people weren’t that scary anymore, I enjoyed going to work and they in the end they couldn’t shut me up!
The new job came around quickly, so there hasn’t been time to think about it but I’m going to miss my team, I feel comfortable with them, they are like extended family. I just hope I can feel as comfortable with this new team as I do now so that I can be myself. I know that I wouldn’t have tried for this job 2 years ago because of a lack of confidence and being just too scared, I just hope its me thats changed and its not the people around me that make the difference.

