slick2007

Well, it’s been 5 weeks now and so far no major snits (yet). It amazes me that he thinks he can say whatever pops into his head then he apologizes and I’m supposed to automatically forget it. Things don’t work that way. My feelings have totally changed toward him and nothing will ever be the same.

I have been in this relationship now for almost 3 years. 2 1/2 years were good. We met on one of the big internet dating sites. We saw each other every other weekend and decided to get married last September. I decided to relocate to his location because he had a much better job. 1 month after I moved, he turned into a real jerk. He yelled and complained continually about the things that I did. Now every six weeks, almost like clockwork, he throws one of his fits. I called off the wedding (thank God) because there’s no way I will marry him due to the way he’s treating me. Now I feel stuck because I’m six hours away from home and have no way to get my furniture out. I am making plans and waiting for the next outburst.

I am speaking up much more than I used to. I am more assertive with my boyfriend and I don’t take as much crap as I used to. This will be a long process but at least I am making progress.