slyvella

It’s taken years of therapy, hearing my friends yell at me for years, but I’ve finally stopped my attraction to men who need to be saved. I’m a fixer, always wanting to solve everyone’s problems, and it’s a dangerous habit. I become emotionally invested in other people’s stuff.

I am off depression meds and am just about done with psychotherapy and it feels good to almost feel normal again. I have more energy and care about life.

I had a habit of forgetting to pay small bills on time, like utilities or store credit cards with $20 on them. So now I have every bill set up to pay online. The utilities come out of my checking account automatically, I set up an auto-pay for my mortgage, but I control it, and I have a repeating task set up for all my credit cards, with a link to the online site to pay the bill. So now I never pay late fees, and never get any nasty letters. It’s worth the time to set it all up.