I'm doing 21 things
All the ones I got over, came back later! And some were like HUGE EVIL JERKS to me.
So now, I’m more eager to get over it, because I have the hope and belief that one day they’ll miss me! And optimism is more attractive than being needy and negative, and obsessing on rejection. Feeling negative and needy, makes them run further.
Part of our heart says, keep the door open, because it entails keeping an open mind, and it offers hope. Keeping an open heart, means making peace with the pain, and sending them love, and becoming neutral. But it’s almost impossible when the only cure at the moment, is closing the book, and letting go. The pain conflicts with keeping the door open. It means, my heart is more open than yours right now, and we don’t connect, and it hurts to feel that you don’t love me the way I love you.
In my belief, which I’m manifesting as my life pattern, the next love is always better than the one before!
I’m learning that there are so many amazing men out there, when I pick one, I have the confidance that there will always be more to love… and if the old ones come back, sometimes they age with grace and the connection is better than it was!
Love is joy, not pain!
Better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all!
