solrunner517

Living for the moment



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solrunner517's Life List

  1. 1. Do something new every month
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    708 people
  2. 2. Be randomly kind to strangers
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    1 person
  3. 3. Attend a spiritual retreat
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    5 people
  4. 4. Do something once a month that scares me
    2 entries . 16 cheers
    1 person
  5. 5. Give myself a break
    1 entry . 10 cheers
    8 people
  6. 6. Be more romantic
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    333 people
  7. 7. Read 6 books during 2010
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    2 people
  8. 8. Meditate daily
    1 entry . 7 cheers
    3,979 people
  9. 9. Come to grips with my brother's acute/chronic alcoholism
    2 entries . 6 cheers
    1 person
  10. 10. Have regular medical checkups
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    1 person
  11. 11. Get new veneers on my front 10 - 12 teeth
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    1 person
  12. 12. Nurture my body, mind and spirit daily
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    1 person
  13. 13. Explore and expand my creativity
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    1 person
  14. 14. Get over bitterness from long ago
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    1 person
  15. 15. Weight train twice a week
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    3 people
  16. 16. Be a better listener
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    753 people
  17. 17. Slow down
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    257 people
  18. 18. Think before i speak
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    564 people
  19. 19. Learn to bake bread
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    129 people
  20. 20. Live in today
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    3 people
  21. 21. Retire and/or move to the coast
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    1 person
  22. 22. Stay a runner for life
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    1 person
  23. 23. Tavel to Bora Bora
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    1 person
  24. 24. Run the Boston Marathon again in either 2010 or 2011 (depending on when I qualify)
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    1 person
  25. 25. Qualify for the Boston Marathon for the third time
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    1 person
  26. 26. Add 6% to my 401K April 1, 2010
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    1 person
  27. 27. Start and complete upstairs bed/bath/landing remodeling project
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    1 person
  28. 28. Start and complete bathroom remodeling project
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    1 person
  29. 29. Complete den/kitchen/bedroom remodeling project
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    1 person
  30. 30. Successfully settle my father's estate
    4 entries . 2 cheers
    1 person
  31. 31. Visit and run in Bar Harbor, Maine
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    1 person
  32. 32. Visit and run in Seattle, Washington
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    1 person
  33. 33. Be less judgemental of others
    1 entry . 1 cheer
    9 people
  34. 34. Be a wonderful wife
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    18 people
  35. 35. Be a better friend
    1 entry . 3 cheers
    5,988 people
  36. 36. Find a career in fitness/wellness that pays well and find out the steps to get there
    1 entry . 4 cheers
    1 person
  37. 37. Take a travel writing class
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    2 people
  38. 38. Take a digital photography class
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    25 people
  39. 39. Start and complete screened porch project
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    1 person
  40. 40. Start and complete exterior paint/roofing project
    1 person
  41. 41. Get married on the beach in Jamaica to my soul mate
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    1 person

How I did it
How to bake my sweetie a homemade Coconut Cake
It took me
30 days
It made me
Full!


How to complete my living room decorating project
It took me
6 months
It made me


How to scuba dive in the tropics
It took me
60 days
It made me
Awestruck . . .


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Find a career in fitness/wellness that pays well and find out the steps to get there
Untitled 3 days ago

I stopped by a gym I don’t usually frequent, and the fitness/wellness director there was very friendly and struck up a conversation with me in the locker room. I asked her if she could recommend resources for me and/or recommend a lucrative area that would provide a fairly good salary. She informed me that the field of weight management had the most opportunity for steady income, and gave me five association websites to check out. She also told me to email or call her if I had any quesitons or if she could help me in any way. I plan to check these out after I return from my wedding/honeymoon, and am most appreciative for her help and suggestins.



Be a better friend
Shut up and listen . . . 1 week ago

I know the way to be a better friend is to listen. Most often that’s all I need to do, unless I’m asked a direct question when a friend is talking about something they are going through. Most often all that’s needed is an ear, not a mouth.

Also, when I feel judgemental thoughts invading, I’ve found I can switch the thoughts around to what’s truly dear and extraordinary about the person instead. We all need someone to accept us just as we are, and being ever mindful of this will help me with this goal.



Stay a runner for life
Untitled 1 week ago

I had a nice chat with a woman in her late 50’s after the OBX half marathon a couple of weeks ago. I asked her why she thought a lot runners quit soon after reaching 50. She told me that she noticed that when she turned 50 she experienced increased soreness after her runs. She stretched more, and took a few more days off and that helped her get through the change. The we talked about how we wondered what kind of shape we’d be in if we didn’t run, and we both whole heartedly agreed it would be much worse than just being a little more sore after our runs. I was reminded one more time of how grateful I am to be able to run, race, and finish in the top 10% of my gender at the age of 48. My resolve to always run was strengthened as a result of my conversation with a fellow runner, and I was also reminded of how important road races are because they keep me in touch with like-minded people which is really, really tough to find a lot of times.



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