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10 years after introducing 43 Things to the world, we have decided we have met our last goal: completing the incredible experience that has been 43 Things. Please join us in giving one last cheer to all the folks who have shared their goals with the world, as well as all the people who have worked at The Robot Co-op to build this incredible website. We won a Webby Award, published a book, and brought happiness to a lot of people.

Starting today, 43 Things users can export their goals and entries from the site. Starting August 15, we will make the site “read only”. 43 Things users will still be able to view the site and export their content, but we won’t be taking any new content from users. We hope to leave the site up for folks to see and download their content until the end of the year. Ending on New Year’s Eve takes us full circle.

It has been a long ride (one of our original goals was to "build a company that lasts at least 2 years” - we beat that one!) While we wish the site could live on, it has suffered from a number of challenges - changes in how people use the site, the advertising industry, and how search engines view the site. We wish the outcome was different – but we’ve always been realistic about when our goals are met and when they aren't.

As of today, you will be able to download your goals and entries. See more about that on the FAQ page. Thanks for 10 great years of goal-setting and achieving.

- The Robots.

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The Darkness begins

Insha'Allah wait 4 my angel, and have the courage to reject others.

Good, you did good wait. Proud on you, proud on your wait and on your angel.

NOT see or contact him in any way/any form for 60 days (read all 5 entries…)
day zero

i’m fed up of myself

NOT see or contact him in any way/any form for 60 days (read all 5 entries…)
still day o

i can’t begin…
he’s there with me,
it’s so hard to move away from him..
i don’t know,
i don’t want leave…
few words from him every 2 days are great to keep me breathing, and he’s already giving me them..
i CAN NOT leave…
however, i like the (all or non law)
at such emotions,
either be with me at every second, or to leave completely…
but i hate the days in which we are in leave…
now i have hope that today or tomorrow he’ll say anything..
at our leave days, no hope, and i worry about him so much, miss him
so much, and even regret that i lost him..

NOT see or contact him in any way/any form for 60 days (read all 5 entries…)

i have clicked on i’ve done this by mistake
while i’m still on day 0

NOT see or contact him in any way/any form for 60 days (read all 5 entries…)
DAY 1 also

Insha’Allah i should do my best to keep away from net.
1- not charging my usb modem or giving it to a friend.
2- trying to not charge my mobile or use another mobile (WITH NO NET CONNECTION) and find a method to hide my other mobile INSHA’ALLAH..
3- I DON’T THINK He will contact me via sms or so.. it’s me who should keep strong enough to not contact him via mobile..
4- keeping busy, study , memorizing Qura’an and so..
5-its supposed to find who could be in his position in my life. but i’m sure nobody can. he is the best.
6-try to stop awake dreaming and thinking about him, and replacing that by DUA’A (prayer) asking Alah to choose the best for him and for me.. and sending him to me if that’s the good.
7- with every coming spouse , i should try to think seriously and pray istikhara always (if this is not good Allah will make this person away from me without fighting more with my family)

NOT see or contact him in any way/any form for 60 days (read all 5 entries…)

So, why should i not contact him?
1- Allah is angry on us both by this relation between stranger male and female.
2- if we leave for Allah, may be He rewards us by gathering us together.
3- my love wants me to not contact him, when will i have some sort of dignity and stop using my all methods to make him talk!
4- i offered engagement (not clearly but i did, and he’s smart enough to understand), his response was nothing.
5- lets see if he really loves me, he will do his BEST to get me by marriage.
6- if he fails to do enough, then he doesn’t love me enough and we are living in a fake love.
7-if within the period of our abundance , i or he forget our love, then this is not love, if our love increases and time fails to make us forget, then this is the real love which is worthy of facing difficulties for its sake.
8- lets give ourselves enough period to arrange our ideas, understand our feelings.
9- i’m going to try in this period to check if i really could marry of another person or not.
10- he said to me many times, marry . and if Allah wants, we will be together INSHA’ALLAH.
11- IT’S SHAME ON US WHO ARE thought to be religious to be involved at haram relation.

Leave my love

Yes,i love him much but he does n’t forward a step. That i feel shame of offering myself such method.

learn to walk in heels

I wont wear it outdoors bcz( 1.the woman can’t walk in a strict way by it and the modest woman shouldn’t do so. 2. Mostly it releases a sound by walking and that’s haram bcz its temptation).
Howeuer inshaALLAH i will wear it at home bcz my future husband said he likes them.



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