seems like whatever i do random people have an opinion about it. if i am too friendly, i’m an attention whore, if i act cold, i’m a bitch who thinks she is superior to those around her. i make a real effort to treat those around me with kindness (be kind for everyone you meet is fighting a battle, plato) and respect but it seems whatever i do, someone i don’t even know that well will have a comment about it especially girls! i wish i wouldn’t let random editorials get to me so much. someone will say something and i’ll feel crushed, almost suffocatingly so. therefore, i’m resolving to take criticism better. i will listen to the criticism, decide whether there is a change i can make and, most importantly, whether there is a change i am willing to make while taking into consideration the source. if there isn’t really anything to be done, i’ll just let it go!
sophia7706's Life List
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1. never settle
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2. Learn Aikido
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3. travel the trans-siberian railway
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4. climb a mountain
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5. finish the new york times sunday crossword with only the help of one other person (maybe)
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6. visit croatia
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7. live in New York City
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8. visit the Taj Mahal
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9. Live in Milan
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10. cook and eat more
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11. get published
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12. manage my money better
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13. study in salamanca spain
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14. practice my music more often
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15. keep in better touch with friends & family
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16. explore
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17. paint more
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18. see the northern lights
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19. host a fantastic dinner party
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20. to have a Sunday kind of love
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21. visit Nashville and drink a beer in a honky tonk
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22. spend the night in a house with a metal rooftop when it is raining
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23. eat healthy
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24. go to law school
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25. join the peace corp
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26. get a new tattoo
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27. visit istanbul
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28. Hike the Oregon/Washinton portion of the Pacific Crest Trail
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29. ride horses again
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30. work on a farm
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31. stop feeling ugly
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32. take fish oil daily
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33. grow my hair long
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34. paint a mural in my apartment
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35. get a vintage camaro
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36. don't let random people's opinions about me get to me
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37. Hike the Pacific Crest Trail
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38. skinny dip in my apartment complex's pool
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Recent entries
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17 months ago
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17 months ago
it’s a such a useless feeling. lately i’ve been off balance and i think that has contributed to my feelings of inadequacy. i’m going to try to get more in balance. then hopefully i’ll be able to cross this one off again!
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17 months ago
i used to watch his show late at night when my boyfriend in high school fell asleep. i’d stay awake restless deep into the night. that is now four years ago and i guess my interest has just worn off. i wouldn’t mind meeting him but there a gaggle of other people i’d much rather spend some time with these days.
