I believe you have to compromise with your spouse, listen and be very attentive. I noticed last year after having my second child that my husband admit to me that I paid more attention to the boys than to him. He was sick one day and said I didn’t take care of him. He would occasionally comment that I don’t listen to him. Well, I finally realized that I have to be a great listener and pay attention to him. I noticed that men are like children too in a way that they also want attention. I did take my husband for granted!!!! I think it’s difficult to balance everything out (children, work, husband, etc) I would also recommend, buying him that he likes. It doesn’t have to be expensive, example: favorite candy, sports collection, etc.
I have done that this year and I have noticed my husband being greatful and happy. So, the key factors are:
Good luck!!!! :)