I started scribbling down thoughts and memories about this a few months ago, when I got an appointment with the uni’s counselling service. I wanted to scribble things down about my relationship with my parents, and other things that might come up, in case the catharsis of counselling robbed me of the urgency and vitriol to write it down and write it fresh.
As it turns out, I ended up giving over my appointment time because I didn’t feel the need for urgent counselling, and near exam time I knew there were people who would benefit more from it. I have kept on writing about this, but it’s a slow process; I don’t want to open the door too wide at once, only to find I can’t shut it again.
spookie's Life List
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1. do yoga more often
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2. learn to play the accordian
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3. renew my Canadian passport
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4. go to Africa with my dad
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5. convince at least one more person to start volunteering
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6. learn Hebrew
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7. become a professional photographer
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8. play the harmonica
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9. take Stephen Fry to lunch
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10. study latin
10 cheers39 people -
11. learn at least one complete piece by Einaudi
4 cheers3 people -
12. paint a mural on my wall
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13. take my grade 5 piano and theory exams
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14. learn Rachmaninoff's Prelude in C-Sharp Minor
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15. read Goethe
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16. get something published
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17. play a live gig
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18. read the iliad and the odyssey
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19. visit my sister's grave
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20. be happy with myself
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21. Learn Makaton
1 entry . 3 cheers13 people -
22. take part in a street skate
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23. refuse to diet
3 entries . 17 cheers1 person -
24. Send a postcard to Postsecret France
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25. renew my first aid certificate
1 entry . 5 cheers2 people -
26. Come off my medication
1 entry . 7 cheers6 people -
27. go busking
1 entry . 8 cheers18 people -
28. stop Playboy marketing to children
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29. get a writing journal and USE IT
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30. volunteer abroad
2 entries . 17 cheers310 people -
31. milk a cow
1 entry . 9 cheers491 people -
32. get another photography commission
2 entries . 5 cheers2 people -
33. learn more Roman history
2 entries . 10 cheers3 people -
34. identify 100 things that make me happy
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35. find a Bookcrossing book in the wild
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36. spin yarn
2 entries . 4 cheers10 people -
37. climb a tree
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38. learn to surf
1 entry . 3 cheers7,095 people -
39. go out and paint an abandoned television
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40. write about what happened to me when I was 7, close the book on it, and move on
1 entry . 2 cheers1 person
Recent entries
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2 weeks ago
One down, three to go!
3 weeks ago
I passed my first year. I don’t have all my module results yet, but it’s looking like I’ll get a high 2-1 (unless a minor miracle occurs with my pragmatics coursework). I won’t get anything lower, in any case, as I managed to scrape just above 60% in French which IS nothing short of a miracle.
I came to uni, I made friends, I didn’t have a breakdown, I didn’t drop out (temporarily or permanently), I joined societies, I spent a lot of time in greasy spoon cafés, I didn’t party TOO much….. and I will do it all again from September!
SUCCESS!
instructor recruited!
2 months ago
I’ve asked my friend Jimmy to teach me to surf this summer in exchange for crashspace in Bangor and plenty of beer :D

