My mom called me “the richest poor person she knows” today. She was referring to me telling her about the nice dinner + drinks date I had went on the night before. She’s right, of course. I do go out way too much considering how little money I have, and then I dig myself into holes when I don’t have money left for the things I actually need. My thought process has always been to keep enjoying the things I enjoy but to do them more sparingly, but maybe I need to rethink this strategy….
squash_the_aash's Life List
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1. figure out what i'm doing with my life
42 people -
2. graduate on time
49 people -
3. get into law school
201 people -
4. listen to my body
37 people -
5. drink more water
19,102 people -
6. be more outgoing
2,419 people -
7. take advantage of new york city
1 person -
8. meditate
2,802 people -
9. find inner peace
738 people -
10. make more friends
5,112 people -
11. join clubs
4 people -
12. save money
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13. go to an ashram
5 people -
14. travel the world
1 entry18,616 people -
15. make scrapbooks
32 people -
16. practice the piano
43 people -
17. fix my relationship
1 entry95 people -
18. learn to dance
6,612 people -
19. learn to cook
8,250 people -
20. learn yoga
2,323 people -
21. read more
7,799 people -
22. finish shantaram
1 cheer2 people -
23. keep in touch with old friends
1,592 people -
24. go on more exciting dates
1 person -
25. exercise more regularly
102 people -
26. take a bike tour of napa
1 person -
27. stop procrastinating
27,066 people -
28. live in san francisco
357 people -
29. boost my GPA
9 people -
30. go on a road trip
3,511 people -
31. spend a weekend in fire island
1 person -
32. stick to a budget
1,306 people -
33. maintain my weight
51 people -
34. volunteer in Africa
553 people -
35. keep up with my spanish
4 people -
36. learn hindi
615 people
When I added this to my list things were looking down. 3 years in the relationship, two of them long distance. And then I picked up and went abroad for the summer leaving issues unresolved and making our 250 miles apart 3000 miles. However after a rocky start we starting understanding the adage “absence makes the heart grow fonder” and began appreciating each other more, and realizing how insignificant our fights were in the long run. I returned back to the states and it has been almost a month of bliss. I don’t think I’m ready to call the relationship ‘fixed’ just yet, but we’re certainly getting there and I couldn’t be happier about it.
Places visited since goal created:
Alicante, Spain
Granada, Spain
Sevilla, Spain
Faro, Portugal
Madrid, Spain
Pamplona, Spain
Barcelona, Spain
Paris, France
Amsterdam, Netherlands
Venice, Italy
Rome, Italy
Athens, Greece
Cyclades, Greece
