what age do I want to get married? how rich do I want to be? how many friends do I want to have? Where do I want to live? What kind of house do i want? How often do I want to have holidays? what hobbies should I spend my time on? How hard should i work? how frequently should I change I job? How do I incorporate everything I want into my life? When do I want a child? How much should I donate to charity? How often should I see my extended family? How much time do I dedicate to excercise?
Normally, I want to grow old with more smile lines than frown lines and since happiness is usually an internal thing, the situations that I find myself in with this life should not effect this goal. However, since I have some control over the direction I want in life I should decide the path I want to take. It may change and there may be things that make my path difficult but that doesnt really matter, all that matters is that I am chosing my adventure and setting my course. time to write my long term goal, 3 year and 5 year plan..
