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sunnyday123




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  2. 1. get rid of my migraines
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  3. 2. Find happiness
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  4. 3. Be proactive and date to find a compatible boyfriend who may be my life partner, but have the strength to move on if he is not right or truly interested
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  5. 4. Make sure my next significant other is a great kisser and loves to kiss, and that I enjoy kissing him and being kissed by him frequently from head to toe.
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  6. 5. Really make love to a man again in that rare sensual way that most men have no clue how to do since most only know how to "have sex". It has been forever and I want that kind of passion and emotional fulfillment from sex with a future significant other so
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  7. 6. Find my life partner and marry him
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  8. 7. Only live with a man if I am married to him
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  9. 8. Create odd life with future husband where we can have some business/strange life/opportunity/whatever that makes us happier and gives us more freedom than doing the normal jobs/stuff that most people do
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  10. 9. take more risks and tell people in my life things directly from my heart, even if it is awkward or I am rejected
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  11. 10. Stop binge-eating long term.
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  12. 11. recite the poem that I believe defines how I will personally feel when I find the right person to that person once I know I have found him.
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  13. 12. add more Libertarian minded and people with more similar philosophies to my life as friends to challenge me and make more interesting companions
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  14. 13. Have a child in a healthy way, go off anticonvulsants for a while with proper planning.
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  15. 14. read the letter I have written and pasted in the book I bought for my future children to them, and tell them the significance of what it is and what they mean to me. I will *only* have children if I can provide them a happy, extraordinary, different life.
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  16. 15. If I meet my significant other too late or he is really opposed to having children, don't beat myself up over it. Life is unknown and unexpected and I can not control everything.
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  17. 16. Find a satisfying life career
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  18. 17. Buy a house
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  19. 18. Own my own business
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  20. 19. Travel to the Greek Isles
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  21. 20. Travel to a South Pacific island
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  22. 21. Photograph the Aurora Borealis
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  23. 22. Go to Alaska in summer
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  24. 23. go to Roswell New Mexico
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  25. 24. Make love under the Aurora Borealis
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  26. 25. swing on the swingset on the beach in Seaside, Oregon at sunset and into darkness when the stars come out. I want to feel as though I will dive into the ocean and fly into the stars...
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  27. 26. Travel to Europe again
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  28. 27. Live in another country
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  29. 28. travel the world
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  30. 29. Sleep 8 hours every night
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  31. 30. Go to bed earlier
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  32. 31. Save money
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  33. 32. Learn how to effectively invest money
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  34. 33. Write in the book I have for my future child/children, letters to them. Regardless if they do not come to be, it is my hope that they will and my words and love would be my gift to them.
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  35. 34. Continue to always be myself, the very different but incredibly good person that I am, and don't sell out my true nature for any man, even for my worst fear of being alone.
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  36. 35. find my balance
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  37. 36. Reflect on the past and continue to use it as a new, smarter guideline for the future. Always be open to change and realizing I may be wrong. Keep my eyes on the present and the future with as healthy of an outlook as I possibly can.
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  38. 37. Don't beat myself up when I feel like a loser in life. Do not compare myself to other people. My challenges in life with my migraines and such have affected me greatly. I should try to be proud of my successes.
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  39. 38. Get over my current rut of feeling somewhat bored and not challenged in my life. I need to create some positive, fulfilling changes.
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  40. 39. Walk for exercise regularly
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  41. 40. write a book
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  42. 41. Go back to college for something challenging to help others if it is realistically possible with my life and my migraines
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  43. 42. Allow myself to only be treated well by the people I choose to have friendships and relationships with. If they do not, I need to find the courage to move on without them.
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  44. 43. My parents are getting weird and very challenging to deal with in their old age. As hard as it is, just take a step back, suck it up and take it. It is the right thing to do.
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How I did it
How to try to keep a positive attitude, even when it is difficult
It took me
36 years
It made me

How I did it: My positive attitude is quickly declining because 43 Things is forcing me to fill out all this shit and I thinking evil thoughts.  And you asses require 150 characters.  Is this enough? Read how I did it…

Mar 21, 2009, 10:52PM PDT | 0 comments | 1 cheer


How to continue to become a better Libertarian
It took me
8 years
It made me

How I did it: I ran for office a couple of times, state senator and state rep.  I was somewhat active in the party.  But I am not as much now.  I am independent but ultimately feel the Libertarian philosophy is the closest to how I can describe myself.  Read how I did it…

Nov 28, 2008, 05:13PM PST | 0 comments


How to become a better cook
It took me
4 years
It made me

How I did it: I took an initial set of cooking classes and then I just played around in the kitchen.  I researched recipes online, in mags, and watch shows on the Food Network.  Read how I did it…

Nov 28, 2008, 04:32AM PST | 0 comments | 2 cheers


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Try to keep a positive attitude, even when it is difficult
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I would say I have had a lot more challenges in my life than most people I know. I certainly am not jumping for joy everyday in life but I think I have reached the healthiest point I probably ever will and can of maintaining a positive attitude. I think if people realized the real low points, pains and challenges I have faced with some different life experiences, they would realize what a success I was with the level I have attained with my attitude. It is a lifelong struggle.

Mar 21, 2009, 10:42PM PDT | 0 comments


become fluent in french
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Why bother?

Apr 30, 2008, 02:56PM PDT | 0 comments


Build a cabin on a lot in the woods
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Like I am ever going to do this! The second it got cold and rainy, I would say screw this…

Apr 29, 2008, 10:11PM PDT | 0 comments


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