i hate being judged for being so skinny. i’m petite and extremely skinny. it’s natural, i have NEVER had an eating disorder yet people (mostly friends) will pull me aside and tell me they are worried about me, asking if i’m anorexic, etc. people i don’t know also make rude comments saying “you look like you need to eat something” “i’m gonna stuff some food down your throat” and telling me i don’t look healthy and need to gain weight. no one can believe i eat well all day (not “dieting”), and that i also eat candy bars daily and fast food at 3 am after drinking. i don’t even exercise because i’m scared of losing weight. i don’t DARE talk about trying to GAIN weight when all my girlfriends are trying to lose. they get so angry and tell me i’m lucky and need to shut up. but they don’t understand how embarrassing it is when a sz 00 pant doesn’t fit and you get dirty looks. people have no problem making rude comments about eating and weight to skinny people, but would these people say to an obese person “hey fatty, you need to hold off on the hamburgers” or tell them they need to lose weight or something similar?? NO! yet it’s the same thing as critizing skinny peoples’ weights. so please, i wish people would show some common courtesy and STOP PICKING ON SKINNY PEOPLE!!!
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