sunshinesurfer




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  1. 1. stop procrastinating
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  2. 2. Finish what I start
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  3. 3. live up to my potential
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  4. 4. Be Focused And Determined And Make Things Happen
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  5. 5. make money
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  6. 6. Save money
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  7. 7. Be on time
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  8. 8. get rid of all my clutter
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  9. 9. change someone's life for the better
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  10. 10. stop throwing clothes on the floor
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  11. 11. stick to a budget
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  12. 12. surf
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  13. 13. be successful
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  14. 14. get out of debt
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  15. 15. Become Financially Independent
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  16. 16. live passionately
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  17. 17. wake up when my alarm clock goes off
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  18. 18. be more creative
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  19. 19. decide what the hell I would like to do with the rest of my life
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  20. 20. be independant
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  21. 21. go on an adventure
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  22. 22. Learn Spanish
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  23. 23. read at least 12 new books
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  24. 24. move on
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  25. 25. find a balance in life
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  26. 26. be more spontaneous
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  27. 27. spend less time on the computer
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  28. 28. pay off my credit card
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  29. 29. stop being so lazy
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  30. 30. graduate from college
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  31. 31. get an ipod
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  32. 32. Buy a House
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  33. 33. be happy again
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  34. 34. find peace of mind
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  35. 35. learn to dance
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  36. 36. Write a book and get it published
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  37. 37. gain weight
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  38. 38. i want to fall in love with someone who loves me as much as i love them!
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  39. 39. draw more
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  40. 40. take better care of myself
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  41. 41. Join the Peace Corps
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  42. 42. Volunteer
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  43. 43. Skydive
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gain weight
why do people make such rude comments to skinny people?! 2 years ago

i hate being judged for being so skinny. i’m petite and extremely skinny. it’s natural, i have NEVER had an eating disorder yet people (mostly friends) will pull me aside and tell me they are worried about me, asking if i’m anorexic, etc. people i don’t know also make rude comments saying “you look like you need to eat something” “i’m gonna stuff some food down your throat” and telling me i don’t look healthy and need to gain weight. no one can believe i eat well all day (not “dieting”), and that i also eat candy bars daily and fast food at 3 am after drinking. i don’t even exercise because i’m scared of losing weight. i don’t DARE talk about trying to GAIN weight when all my girlfriends are trying to lose. they get so angry and tell me i’m lucky and need to shut up. but they don’t understand how embarrassing it is when a sz 00 pant doesn’t fit and you get dirty looks. people have no problem making rude comments about eating and weight to skinny people, but would these people say to an obese person “hey fatty, you need to hold off on the hamburgers” or tell them they need to lose weight or something similar?? NO! yet it’s the same thing as critizing skinny peoples’ weights. so please, i wish people would show some common courtesy and STOP PICKING ON SKINNY PEOPLE!!!




 

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