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  1. 1. Finish my will and trust
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  2. 2. Practice acceptance
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  3. 3. pray every day
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  4. 4. stop procrastinating
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  5. 5. support women artists, woman-run businesses, and positive endeavors by other women generally
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  6. 6. clean my room
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  7. 7. Make new friends
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  8. 8. inspire people
    343 people
  9. 9. free myself from my ex-husbands games
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  10. 10. think before i speak
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  11. 11. Read more
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  12. 12. be a size 10
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  13. 13. Be not only a Mother, but a good Mother
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  14. 14. Create a beautiful uplifting morning routine
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  15. 15. stop talking so much
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  16. 16. have faith
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  17. 17. always be learning
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  18. 18. grow a garden
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  19. 19. Stay motivated and follow through on my commitments
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  20. 20. learn to use my personal time wisely
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  21. 21. forgive myself
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  22. 22. Be granted the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and to have the wisdom to know the difference...
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  23. 23. Let go of the past
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  24. 24. forgive those who have hurt me
    281 people
  25. 25. Make choices that are good for me and are in accordance to my values
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  26. 26. learn to focus on who and what I am instead of on who and what I'm not
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  27. 27. To live instead of exist
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  28. 28. Allow myself to only be treated well by the people I choose to have friendships and relationships with. If they do not, I need to find the courage to move on without them.
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  29. 29. change my life
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  30. 30. sort my life out
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  31. 31. Join a church that moves me
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  32. 32. Express love and gratitude daily
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  33. 33. Do things because they are right, not because they are easy
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  34. 34. make a difference
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  35. 35. make a difference in someone's life
    1,281 people
  36. 36. be a better listener
    792 people
  37. 37. have a better memory
    107 people
  38. 38. live righteously
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  39. 39. declutter my house
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  40. 40. stop being afraid of change
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  41. 41. choose a career path that makes an impact on society or that allows me to motivate and inspire people
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  42. 42. visit Finland
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    164 people
  43. 43. find my passion, and follow it passionately
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Recent entries
know when to walk away
Walked away today

Fly away little bird
Any place in this open mouthed world
Begs to be fed like a bed that beckons you, but you won’t rest
Everyone’s got a need to go
Most of us stick with our row to hoe
But not you, you’re the black crow
With a straight line, and no time
For the birds of prey who wreck your nest
Twice your size steal your best
They set you on this course of your collision

I am a stop along your way
I am the words you’ll never say
I crossed the great beyond of fear
I opened my eyes and saw us there, what a view
You went there too

Fly away little bird
Find the song in you that no one’s heard
Strenghthen your wings as you sing your solo flight
Through this short life
Everyone’s got a deep regret
We try to ground ourselves to forget
But your race to the end is neck and neck
You love them, you love them not
The birds of prey who wreck your nest,
Twice your size steal your best
They set you on this course of your collision

I am a stop along your way
I am the words you’ll never say
I crossed the great beyond of fear
Opened my eyes and saw us there, what a view
And you went there too

But all along your chosen path are
Window panes and sheets of glass
That you won’t see
You fly too fast
One day it will be over

Fly away little bird
The saddest song I ever heard
Was the one I wrote you in my heart
That never made it to the world
—Emily Saliers

trust him
I couldn't

I divorced him today.


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