tigerlady




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  1. 1. not sweat the small stuff
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  2. 2. dress for success
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  3. 3. renew my passport
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  4. 4. get in touch with my inner child
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  5. 5. make a will
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  6. 6. take better care of my skin
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  7. 7. go camping
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  8. 8. buy my own house
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  9. 9. learn something new everyday
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  10. 10. lose 100 pounds
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  11. 11. start my own business
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  12. 12. be a better parent
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  13. 13. get paid to write
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  14. 14. keep a clean home
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  15. 15. Get organized
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  16. 16. Make new friends
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  17. 17. Get an MBA
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  18. 18. build a website
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  19. 19. write a book
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  20. 20. stop fighting with my husband
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  21. 21. Read more
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  22. 22. find more time for myself
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  23. 23. Learn to say NO
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  24. 24. Act in a play
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  25. 25. own a magical flying carpet
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  26. 26. Visit every country in the world
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  27. 27. keep in touch with friends
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  28. 28. get rid of stuff i don't need
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  29. 29. stop eating leftovers
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  30. 30. channel my artistic abilities into something meaningful
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  31. 31. get my child in commercials
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  32. 32. run a marathon
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  33. 33. take more time for myself
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  34. 34. bungee jump
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  35. 35. have no regrets
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  36. 36. get back into music
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  37. 37. decorate my apartment
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  38. 38. not hate stupid people
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  39. 39. post random questions daily and see if anyone plays with me and answers them :)
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  40. 40. let go of emotional baggage
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  41. 41. learn more about my religion
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  42. 42. Help My 43T Friends acheive their Goals
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  43. 43. Fly First Class
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Recent entries
stop letting my control-freak co-worker get to me (read all 6 entries…)
No turning back 2 years ago

I got this woman fired!!!
She invaded my privacy and terrorized me and many others for the last time.
I can’t believe I did it – and with such coolness and calmness and no emotional outbreaks – at least not yet.
The HR department got involved this morning and I had to write up my case in an email to the HR director. Then right after lunch they called me downstairs to keep me out of way and off the same floor to avoid more of a scene – and I chatted with another new mother in the HR department about our babies and the possibilities that could be happening upstairs. I was a chatterbox as I tend to be when I am nervous.

Supposedly [I was downstairs at the time] they confronted her and she admitted to doing it. They confiscated her access cards, reclaimed her computer and she packed up her personal things and left right there and then – in the middle of the day.

Of course the rumor mills were flying!!! And she called one of her friends claiming that I was gunning for her job since the beginning and that I had her framed or something along those lines in order to save face. But mostly the story was correct. A personal file was sent to her computer and I was somehow involved.

My boss was shocked on Friday when I finally got around to telling him, and also that I had been sitting on this for 2 weeks already. I told him I had to think long and hard before I did anything about it, and that’s true. This whole situation consumed me for the past few days. And then once I got the ball rolling, it was so fast it left me thrown for a loop. And she has been being so nice to everyone lately, I guess she was expecting it.

True, this woman terrorized me personally for at least the past year and most people would agree she was difficult to work with. But she was also a work-a-holic. She came in early and left late and worked weekends. She was not married, had no children and when her last cat attacked her, she had it put down. Apart from being a psycho, she has lots of physical ailments as well. She is asthmatic and recently spent time in the hospital for pneumonia and had a cyst removed from her lung. She also has knee problems and is severly overweight and generally not a healthy person, so I am sorry to have taken away her medical bemefits more than anything. She can go to the temp agencies to find work and collect some sort of unemployment, so I am less worried about her actual financial position.

But as my support system has been telling me, she made her own bed and now she has to lie in it. She is the one who crossed the line and for some reason thought she was untouchable and that she wouldn’t get caught – and isn’t it funny how G-d works in mysterious ways. Why oh why didn’t she just read the damn thing on my computer since she was already there, if it was so important to her, and no one would have been the wiser? But she not only compressed the file (which I don’t even know how to do) and left it there out on the drive, she also sent it to her computer. And there was nothing she could do with the information anyway as it was a SELF appraisal and confidential at that. Then she didn’t really completely delete it off my computer, which also blows my mind, and that basically sealed her coffin.

We’ll see what the next few days reveal. I am petrified! I even asked for an escort to my car this afternoon. The HR director took me personally in her car and it gave us a chance to debrief a little bit as well.

And there you have it – as the world turns, and there is the first real “pigua” (terrorist bombing) in Eilat – also previously untouchable in all the Middle East mess, my own little world keeps on turning and unfolding new and dramatic turns.



Dress for Success
New Year's Resolution 2 years ago

This is one of my new year’s resolutions. As I get a clean slate at the beginning of the year, I also get to return to work after a couple of months off for maternity leave. I decided to turn over a new leaf and dress up for work on a daily basis. I got the opportunity to do alot of wardrobe (clothing) shopping while I was off I just need a little income to finish accessorizing with shoes (my father calls me Imelda, but I haven’t bought any new ones lately) and jewelry.
Once you’ve done something for three weeks it supposedly becomes a habit and that is certainly my intention here. To dress up and wear makeup daily – at least for now – this should counteract any lingering “pregnancy brain” phenomenon and instances of sleeplessness to be encountered with an infant and an almost three year old at home.



breastfeed (read all 2 entries…)
Ouchie... 2 years ago

My 6 week old daughter is at the marathon nursing stage. And she is constantly hungry. She also has a virus that has her congested therefore she never fully finishes a meal. She has sucked a blister on one nipple from all this constant contact and she just drains me physically and emotionally sometimes, but then she will gurgle and coo and it just makes up for everything



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