14. Antony and the Johnsons: The Crying Light
14/20
| 1. |
do 20 pushups
4 entries . 7 cheers |
42 people |
| 2. |
Save 1000
5 entries . 6 cheers |
462 people |
| 3. |
buy 20 CD's in 2009
5 entries . 2 cheers |
1 person |
| 4. |
weigh 155 pounds
2 entries |
7 people |
| 5. |
feel more confident
2 entries . 5 cheers |
39 people |
| 6. |
run three miles
3 entries . 13 cheers |
29 people |
| 7. |
do 20 pull-ups
1 entry . 2 cheers |
101 people |
| 8. |
give away all the clothes I never wear
1 entry . 25 cheers |
84 people |
| 9. |
remember to be soft and present
1 entry . 1 cheer |
1 person |
| 10. |
draw my own boundaries at least once
2 entries . 4 cheers |
1 person |
| 11. |
Stop comparing myself to other people
1 entry . 13 cheers |
690 people |
| 12. |
build more muscle
1 entry . 2 cheers |
44 people |
| 13. |
see an old vampire movie
1 entry . 11 cheers |
1 person |
| 14. |
write 5 songs
3 entries |
2 people |
| 15. |
make a demo
2 entries |
14 people |
| 16. |
learn to shoot a gun
2 entries . 10 cheers |
436 people |
| 17. |
plan my NaNo novel well
9 entries . 2 cheers |
1 person |
| 18. |
Win NaNoWriMo 2009
1 entry . 3 cheers |
18 people |
| 19. |
find a job i love
3 entries . 5 cheers |
1,914 people |
| 20. |
crossdress
1 entry . 7 cheers |
192 people |
| 21. |
get new glasses
2 entries . 2 cheers |
321 people |
| 22. |
learn to mix a decent cosmopolitan
5 cheers |
1 person |
| 23. |
coke
1 cheer |
24 people |
| 24. |
graffiti
1 cheer |
321 people |
| 25. |
go to the zen center again
1 entry . 2 cheers |
1 person |
| 26. |
hang glide
2 entries . 1 cheer |
680 people |
| 27. |
learn to drive
4 cheers |
6,116 people |
| 28. |
stand up against the sexual harassers at my workplace
8 cheers |
1 person |
| 29. |
write a book
1 entry . 1 cheer |
25,991 people |
| 30. |
trust people
1 entry . 2 cheers |
203 people |
| 31. |
be less jealous
4 entries . 1 cheer |
421 people |
| 32. |
live with no regrets
5 cheers |
281 people |
| 33. |
visit new york
1 entry . 2 cheers |
1,361 people |
| 34. |
lucid dream
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645 people |
| 35. |
get him back
3 entries . 2 cheers |
194 people |
| 36. |
get published
1 entry |
1,989 people |
| 37. |
try acupuncture
7 cheers |
108 people |
| 38. |
practice aikido
2 entries . 2 cheers |
32 people |
| 39. |
pet a penguin
4 cheers |
115 people |
| 40. |
live in a foreign country
1 entry . 3 cheers |
2,450 people |
| 41. |
work abroad
1 entry . 4 cheers |
301 people |
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161! Going veeeery slowly.
I have to think up a reward for myself for when I reach 155.
First week over! I expected it will be rough and tiring, but it was even more exhausting than I thought. I’m still absolutely beat.
Still, I get to do what I love, so it’s defintely worth it. We’ll see, I guess it will just get easier from now on as I familiarise myself with everything and everybody.