I'm doing 41 things
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1. do 20 pushups
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2. Save 1000
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3. buy 20 CD's in 2009
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4. weigh 155 pounds
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5. feel more confident
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6. run three miles
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7. do 20 pull-ups
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8. give away all the clothes I never wear
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9. remember to be soft and present
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10. draw my own boundaries at least once
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11. Stop comparing myself to other people
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12. build more muscle
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13. see an old vampire movie
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14. write 5 songs
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15. make a demo
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16. learn to shoot a gun
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17. plan my NaNo novel well
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18. Win NaNoWriMo 2009
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19. find a job i love
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20. crossdress
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21. get new glasses
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22. learn to mix a decent cosmopolitan
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23. coke
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24. graffiti
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25. go to the zen center again
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26. hang glide
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27. learn to drive
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28. stand up against the sexual harassers at my workplace
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29. write a book
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30. trust people
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31. be less jealous
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32. live with no regrets
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33. visit new york
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34. lucid dream
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35. get him back
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36. get published
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37. try acupuncture
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38. practice aikido
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39. pet a penguin
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40. live in a foreign country
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41. work abroad
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How I did it
It made me
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How I did it: Practiced, practiced and practiced! Then when we thought we were good enough, we contacted some local venues and one agreed to take us. The gig went by last month, and we were better than ever! I'm really happy with how it went. And we might have another one coming this autumn. Read how I did it…
It made me
fulfilled
How I did it: Started very slowly talking about the possibility of opening up our relationship with my then only partner, who was theoretically open to the idea but had many doubts. We processed and processed. Meanwhile, I fell in love with somebody I knew but only pursued a relationship when I had an ok from my primary partner. We proceeded very slowly with my new lover and at the pace that my old partner was comfortable with. Finally, I can say I'm h… Read how I did it…
It made me
orgasmic 
How I did it: Just talked to my existing partner about my fantasies, and it turns out that while our fantasies don't exactly mirror each other we're both willing to do things for each other, and anyway we both get turned on by watching each other get turned on.I also do light BDSM with another partner, and with him it was a big part of our sexual routine from early on. We found we have this common interest, but there, too, it has required a lot of comm… Read how I did it…
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1 month ago
161! Going veeeery slowly.
I have to think up a reward for myself for when I reach 155.
Phew...
2 months ago
First week over! I expected it will be rough and tiring, but it was even more exhausting than I thought. I’m still absolutely beat.
Still, I get to do what I love, so it’s defintely worth it. We’ll see, I guess it will just get easier from now on as I familiarise myself with everything and everybody.
