while i’m at the perfect age biologically to have a child right now, it seems this goal is a long way off from coming into reality. the thought of creating a child of my own right now scares the shit out of me. from what i’ve observed, it seems like to provide a child with a fit environment for growing well in this culture necessitates a lot of money, especially in the form of the father having a full time job. also, having a child in this culture means creating a nuclear family quite often, which is something i am not interested in creating. i want to raise children in homes that have more than two adults living in them. i want that for all children and parents, and i want that for any potential child of mine, and i want that for me.
i have been enjoying the opportunity present to me to assist in the rearing of a child that is not my own. i encourage anyone who is able to to do the same