One might say that I completed this goal. I am seeing the importance of putting my needs ahead of others. I am so much more mentally healthy than I was a year ago. I am always going to be a people pleaser- that is inbred in me! But I am more secure about myself. Maybe it was a good thing that FORMER friends screwed me over. They are no longer in my life and I have more energy to concentrate on me. Just becuz I am more selfish doesn’t mean I am less nice and less considerate I just am more considerate of myself. I’m keeping this goal as a reminder to myself that I have to be true and kind to myself before I can trully give to others.
tracemill's Life List
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1. buy a tent, a kayak and some cool shoes!!!
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2. travel to every continent
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3. see the Rose Parade
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4. go on a road trip with no predetermined destination
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5. tour the local wineries in my state
1 person -
6. renew my passport
283 people -
7. bake a Baked Alaska
1 person -
8. visit Memphis!
8 people -
9. earn a bachelor's degree
60 people -
10. go on the Sound of Music Tour of Salzburg
1 person -
11. stay at the Bellagio
1 person -
12. make my own hand blown glass goblets
1 person -
13. threw out my old undies and socks and start all over!!
1 person -
14. throw myself a great birthday party in 2 1/2 years!!
1 person -
15. go to Alaska
759 people -
16. see the Dave Matthews Band in concert
2 people -
17. go on a missionary trip
18 people -
18. Go white water rafting
1,417 people -
19. end my dependence on the evil empire called Walmart!
1 person -
20. meet more people
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21. perform a random act of kindness at least once a week.
1 cheer2 people -
22. visit Chicago!
244 people -
23. visit the Biltmore estate
7 people -
24. end my diet soda addiction
2 people -
25. ride in RAGBRAI
1 entry5 people -
26. go to africa
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27. climb the Sydney Harbor Bridge!
17 people -
28. take tap dance lessons
5 people -
29. run a 5k race
200 people -
30. appear on a reality TV show
4 people -
31. go to Cabo San Lucas
12 people -
32. attend the academy awards
14 people -
33. be a contestant on the Price is Right
48 people -
34. visit all 50 states
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35. kiss in the rain
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36. have a bonfire on the beach
44 people -
37. see paul mccartney in concert
48 people -
38. drink champagne in a hot air balloon
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39. meet the president
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40. have the Christmas spirit next Christmas
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41. learn to geo cache
2 people -
42. walk/run a mile under 10 minutes
1 person -
43. have a speaking part in a movie
3 people
What a difference a year makes! I am sooooooo much happier this year. I quit a job that I really disliked- Christmas was a big part of being an activity director. Christmas was a major pain in the ass!!! This year, I am a full time college student this year. I am working my tail off to earn extra cash during the season but I’m taking it all in stride. Christmas 08 is really just another day- I work that evening. My family will be scattered at inlaws across the midwest. Thanksgiving(my favorite holiday was big deal this year). Christmas is not pissing me off which is a major relief. I think next Christmas (big deal year) will be a banner year with the completion of most college courses and the family together. I am content with Christmas this year and feel that I will probably have the spirit in 09.
Well I met Bush Sr. after he was president, and I shook hands with Barack Obama before he was president. I guess I just wanna meet a current president! I’m so glad George W is almost gone!!
