For me, no strings attached always turns into attachment. I guess maybe it depends on the person…?
A friend of mine is trying to do this now, but i can clearly see that she has terribly low self-esteem, and deep down she wants someone to care for her, not just use her.
My advice is, carefully examine your needs and motivation. And for god’s sake, BE CAREFUL!
Sep 13, 2007, 10:19AM PDT | 2 cheers | 0 comments
Yeah, they will. But that’s part of the point.
Also, they’ll think you’re weird. Too bad they have such a stick up their butt that they can’t lighten up. :)
Sep 12, 2007, 01:03PM PDT | 2 cheers | 0 comments
All it takes is to just be mindful when you’re about to do it, and just DON’T DO IT. Yeah, that takes practice. But don’t you really HATE gossip, deep down? What about when it’s directed at you? What about when it’s directed at you and it’s all mean-spirited lies???? So, don’t lower yourself. Don’t be one of ‘em!
Best of luck,
Zoe
Sep 12, 2007, 12:56PM PDT | 1 cheer | 1 comment