I have decided it is okay to plan events for others, particularly if they request my services or if it can be my birthday gift to them. This goal means no event planning for myself, or for the sake of having an event.
I’ve made it through a whole month!! :)
I also have one person in my life in charge of nudging me when it sounds like I may be going into “planning mode”, so that has been incredibly helpful.
Although I would’ve liked to have met this already, I’m finding it challenging to balance removing people and adding new people and how that factors into my goal. I’m not comfortable with saying I won’t add anymore people in order to meet some fixed number I just made up. Instead, I am going to aim to remove another 20 or so whom I no longer follow or keep up with by the end of Feb.
I’m at 479 friends now. It’s starting to get more difficult, but it definitely feels good to finally remove people whom I either don’t know at all anymore or I don’t want to even have floating in the ether of my Facebook. :)
I’m trying my best to complete my goal by the first week of January!