Dining room table (my dream one, see other entry)is in place. I got an 8 place setting for 50% off in white (versatile)about a month ago. I picked up a silverware set that wasn’t used (their friend got it at their wedding) at a garage sale for $20. I looked it up online and normally it would cost $25 for 5 pieces. I got 40 pieces for $20!
My guest list is made. Now I need a menu and a date! Oh and plan to make it special. Martha Stewart will come in handy for that. :)
Jul 01, 04:55PM PDT | 1 cheer | 0 comments
I would feel bad that I kept putting off things and I didn’t even know why half the time. I actually found this book at Goodwill and it was very helpful. (Perhaps they didnt need it anymore!)
The Procrastinator’s Handbook: Mastering the Art of Doing It Now- Rita Emmett
The book explains different reason why people procrastinate (I fit with “wanting it to be perfect” so I had to plan everything first and wanting to skip around projects all the time.) It had really good strategies to help with procrastination. I ended up highlighting parts so when I felt myself wanting to procrastinate I could do a quick motivation read (or else I read the whole book and would be procrastinating!)
It eventually came to the point where I would just do things esp. when I realized that a lot of things I was putting off could be done in less than 15 minutes! The book has been so effective and I haven’t picked up the book in 2 years!
Breaking it down in smaller tasks helped bigger projects.
Besides the book, I also asked myself ” What one thing do you most want to AVOID?” I would do that first so I wouldn’t dread it all day. Just get it over with, it less painful that way!
Jul 01, 03:45PM PDT | 2 cheers | 0 comments
I have the S-factor DVDs to learn stripping and polework. I’ve stripped a few times for my husband but I really want to get a pole to practice on. That is more exciting for me. I need to practice floor work again before buying a pole.
I think its fun and beautiful. Plus my husband will love it. I want to do this for me too, to challenge myself. Plus its fun. I have always liked the sensual arts-stripping, bellydance, latin. Other than walking, dance is the only exercise I like!
Oh by the way, I’m a Christian and I find nothing wrong with teasing my husband (but only my husband).
A good Christian resource about sexuality plus “safer” places to buy intimate items w/o being exposed to questionable pictures:
http://www.themarriagebed.com/
Apr 28, 02:07PM PDT | 0 comments