I'm doing 28 things
After this huge challenge with Judien, I learned to seek for forgiveness and let go of the hatred (I have been keeping for 13 years)...
I believe it’s best for Judien to observe that we don’t fight anymore (my ex and his mom) over the custody of my son. We have been like this since the time I went back from China. I would always tell them that I should keep the kids because I am the mom and they would always tell me, I could have Chachie but not Judien.
It was always hurting and painful on my part to just get a few moments of my son’s time but not entirely the whole time.
But this time, I learned to let go of that and learned to recognize their role in my son’s life.
What happened to Judien was a lesson we will never forget-
Thanks to Judien, we learned so much – to give love instead of hate, to forgive and be humble instead of being arrogant and selfish, to appreciate the good instead of focusing on the bad.
Thank God for letting us realize all these things.
I just feel so sorry for my son who sacrificed a lot just to bring the family closer again.
