seeing that a lot of other people have this fear :-D
vickeeey's Life List
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1. Become a Great Actress
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2. get over my trust issues
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3. Pray daily
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4. Waste less time
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5. disarm fears, promote pleasure, and reduce suffering
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6. Learn how to enjoy the present
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7. Stop being so hard on myself
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8. stop caring about what other people think
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9. Learn to let go
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10. Become the best person I can be.
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11. become more confident in myself
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12. Find my niche as a singer
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13. get over my fear of flying
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How I did it: I know this probably isn't the best way to go about achieving this goal haha! But this is how I did it. Even though I'll admit, I still stay up some nights doing God knows what (mainly enjoying the quiet of the night), when I look over and he's passed out at about 11 (which is early for me) it's hard not to shut down shortly after :) Read how I did it…
How I did it: By learning to enjoy exercise. It releases endorphines that can make you feel on top of the world! Also, by finding a workout routine you like. I hate cardio (unless it's dancing), but I love to do accelerated weight lifting where I keep my heart rate up. Read how I did it…
How I did it: I was always getting terrible panic attacks at least three times a week and I was desperate to get back to just living my life. They were so severe I felt like I was on the brink of insanity and I was going to lose my mind at any minute. Life was like hell and I felt so alone. I felt trapped inside myself and I just wanted to break free. Then one day, I woke up, I looked out the window and I said no more! No one was going to pull me ou… Read how I did it…
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My whole life I’ve had trust issues, I think it psychologically has to do with the dominant males in my family leaving (father and big brother). And now I’m in a new relationship, coming out of a relationship with a possessive, manipulative, cheating male. My new bf looks into my eyes and tells me he knows I’m the one and that he wants to grow old with me. Am I wrong to doubt this?? How does he know, it’s so soon? Isn’t he scaring himself?? What if he tires of me? So far it’s been 6 months and nothing he’s done has given me reason to believe he is a liar. I think this may be it, but it’s still fresh… constantly monitoring my insecurities is tough though…
It won’t always be there, things will always change. If I keep taking the present for granted by concentrating on all the negativities of the moment, before I know it, I’ll look up and it will have already become the past.
