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Oven pasta 5 months ago

Slice some ham into little cubes, put it in a bowl with a pack of cream. Boil some pasta (preferably the one that looks like screws). When it’s done, put it in a thing to take to the oven. Cover with the cream and ham, then with slices of cheese, then with what’s left of the cream, then grinded bread. Take it to the oven for some 15m or something, just to toast, and enjoy. Easy and tasty.

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find a good friend with benefits
watch your borders. 9 months ago

Met a girl, got envolved, we were more than just friends with benefits, even though we didn’t love each other. Lots of miscomunication. She wouldn’t speak her mind, wouldn’t trust me enough to be open. Then she dumped me: crashed and burned, hard. Tried to stay friends, didn’t work. She’s too proud to admit to her own mistakes, never once showed sorrow or regret, never apologized and always acts as if what she does is right. Should’ve trusted my instincts in the first place instead of getting involved with a mental teenager.

And i broke my rule on FwB: you shouldn’t get involved emotionaly (but we were more than that). So eventually i started talking with another friend and we became close. She does speak her mind and that’s a relief ‘cos i know exactly where i stand, and so does she. So we’ve met a couple of times, go out for coffee, then some place private, have some interesting fun, then go on living. Mo hassle, no worries, no one get’s hurt. We’re friends, sometimes we enjoy our benefits.

And recently i’ve came to start talking more with yet another friend who ended up telling me there was a high chance of something like that happening. Life is full of ironies.

Strong advice: separate things. Make sure the someone you’re with is a person you know well enough, someone who trusts you and tells you what s/he thinks and feels, honesty and straightforwardness are key here. Make sure there are no second intentions, say that if you must. If you both know (for sure) what the other wants, then it actually becomes easy.

And don’t forget the condoms.

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Change Job
There has been some change. 9 months ago

I’ve quit my previous job. 4 years in a callcenter are enough, so now i’m unemployed but much much less stressed.

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Learn a third language Princess K is Back Again...again! wants to Stop comparing myself to other people get another tattoo buy a bike learn to sew Learn to surf watch all CSI episodes stop living from paycheck to paycheck learn how to use photoshop Sell stuff on ebay have a flat stomach customize my car become a runner be able to fake an Irish accent juicebox88 wants to identify 100 things that make me happy (besides money) watch lost season 3 until the fall finalé Hug Patrick Stump for a really long time talk less, listen more sail rock climb Let things go track my menstrual cycle be a better employee tahti wants to take more pictures...better pictures meditate more get my bac! Spend at least 15 minutes a day doing something on this list do my homework