Toary




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Toary's Life List

  1. 1. find my soulmate
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    3,224 people
  2. 2. eat less
    2 entries . 16 cheers
    682 people
  3. 3. read the newspaper more regularly
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    2 people
  4. 4. buy a keyboard
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    52 people
  5. 5. organize my bookmarks
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    131 people
  6. 6. organize my favorite rss feeds
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    1 person
  7. 7. NOT get married
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    45 people
  8. 8. be happy
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    24,870 people
  9. 9. increase my skills in using prepositions
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    3 people
  10. 10. find a really meaningful thing to do with my life
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    1 person
  11. 11. see Brokeback Mountain
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    14 people
  12. 12. remember my dreams
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    382 people
  13. 13. read every book I own
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    2,117 people
  14. 14. Learn how to play Go
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    10 people
  15. 15. consciously create my day
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    55 people
  16. 16. Get a new bed.
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    55 people
  17. 17. Keep my "To Do List" updated
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    37 people
  18. 18. Improve my French
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    1,445 people
  19. 19. own an expensive purse
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    9 people
  20. 20. know my blood type
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    179 people
  21. 21. hug a tree
    2 entries . 5 cheers
    76 people
  22. 22. fight for the freedom to blaspheme god
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    1 person
  23. 23. Find a balance between the things I want to do and the things I need to do
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    2,346 people
  24. 24. become a feminist superhero
    1 entry . 10 cheers
    37 people
  25. 25. create a world where women can walk ANYWHERE, EVERYWHERE
    1 entry . 10 cheers
    66 people
  26. 26. not burn out
    1 entry . 6 cheers
    6 people
  27. 27. complain
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    2 people
  28. 28. surrender
    1 entry . 5 cheers
    25 people
  29. 29. have a nice smile
    2 entries . 5 cheers
    19 people
  30. 30. Be the executive director of my pants
    1 entry . 3 cheers
    5 people
  31. 31. be a mentor
    1 entry . 1 cheer
    227 people
  32. 32. make a difference
    1 entry . 2 cheers
    7,169 people
  33. 33. express my feminist ideals more
    1 entry . 5 cheers
    17 people
  34. 34. meet other feminists
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    3 people
  35. 35. have deep intellectual conversations
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    4 people
  36. 36. Explore 43 New Places in My City
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    17 people
  37. 37. improve my work life balance
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    10 people
  38. 38. live on my own
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    636 people
  39. 39. stop homophobia
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    118 people
  40. 40. Learn Groovy
    12 people
  41. 41. implement GTD
    431 people
  42. 42. Never stop learning
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    4,078 people
  43. 43. feel loved
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    229 people
Recent entries
stop neglecting my 43things list (read all 3 entries…)
getting things done

When I wrote my last entry about this goal, I had just finished reading the famous Getting Things Done book. However, I’m not living what I’ve learned. It wasn’t working for me.

So isn’t 43T anymore. I don’t even remember my goals and never look at the list.

I have many to do lists and wish lists and list with plans and goals, but I never look at any of them. There are always so many new things that I can’t handle tracking the old ones, too. In consequence life is pushing me instead of me pushing life. That’s the way it is right now.

However my recent experience is that life pushes me much more effectively forward than I would be able to push life. I wouldn’t have accomplished so much, it I had limited myself to what I wanted to do. Not keeping track turned out to be really helpful. It gives mental space to actually do a few things.

The mentioned GTD book has a different approach. It tells you to move all the things in your mind to lists. So you have them in front of you instead of bothering you from the subconscious mind. But for me that attempt was a disaster. Writing lists is good. But working with them the GTD way is bad. I don’t recommend trying.



stop neglecting my 43things list (read all 3 entries…)
most things on my 43things list...

...are checklist reminders …or maybe/later topics.

That means, they are not actionable! And so they can’t be neglected!

All what’s needed is that they are on a list, and that this list is reviewed now and then. Some of the things may become purpose or principles or success criteria of future projects, but most are just fantasy wishes. Feel good wishes. Keep-your-dreams wishes. Wishes I want to keep.

Yes, I stopped creating new goals and writing entries about the existing ones. But that was, because I grew up, gained a new perspective on life, become mature. I never did neglect this list. It just has found a new purpose in my life.

Time to close this goal. The list is there. Now I will start getting things done.



Give 700 cheers (read all 3 entries…)
did it twice now

Dropped under 700 again (I still don’t know why the number decreases), but now I’m on 704. That number is almost as cool as 43.



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