I’ve just always appreciated diverse queer people. I’ve dated both transmen and transwomen. Just learn about your own gender policing and don’t do it to your partners, or anyone for that matter. Learn about transphobia and trans people’s concerns. Be an ally, not a fetishist. Don’t out your partners for your own ends – be that to shock, or to give you queer credibility, remember that everyone owns their own information, and transpeople risk discrimination and violence from outing.
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1. Get a new job
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2. get another tattoo
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3. pay off credit cards
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4. overcome depression
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5. keep my house clean
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6. Give away all the clothes I no longer wear to charity
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7. create my own website
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8. learn to make my own clothes
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9. Buy a House
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10. Organise a plaque at St Nizier Church in Lyon to commermorate the events in 1975 that became the birth of the sex worker rights movement
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11. take singing lessons
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12. grow my own vegetables
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13. Write a book
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14. get permanent make up
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15. get a bettie page hair do
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16. finish reading all the books I own
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17. learn to belly dance
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How I did it: Someone who knows what they were doing showed me a few things, over a coffee, it didn't take longer than about 1/2 an hour.From then on, I just try out some things - as you make mistakes, and learn how to fix them, you'll learn the program. It takes confidence, so lose the technophobia and give it a go.Much later, when I needed for my work to do some photo editing, at a more sophisticated level, I took a short course (about 6 weeks) at my… Read how I did it…
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International Whores Day has a rich history, starting in 1975 when a group of sex workers staged a sit in at a Church in Lyon in France, to protest the discrimination against sex workers.In Lyon, France on June 2 1975, sex workers and their supporters took over a church and staged a sit in over a number of days. The action was in protest against the increasing number of arrests of street sex workers, police harassment of them and the lack of interest shown by the police in solving murders and other crimes committed against them. This action inspired other sex workers around the world to start to organize themselves politically, giving birth to the sex worker rights movement that we have today. International Whores Day has been described as the sex workers Stonewall.
