I have a plan… a plan regarding a man. It involves practicing a lot of patience, building a friendship first, not pushing it, keeping it together, not rushing the plan etc…
Just as I decided on that, I got an astrology newsletter (don’t judge, I really only read it for fun :-) ) saying “you’re a smart cookie, so don’t crumble. Don’t despair or try to rush things when you can’t immediately get what you want; keep a longterm vision”. As it has a nice ring to it, I’ve adopted the cookie sentence as a sort of personal mantra, putting it n° 1 on my 43T and using it as a screensaver on my laptop.
“You’re a smart cookie, so don’t crumble!”
Wiebe, one smart cookie (of the noncrumbling type).
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Started to work seriously on that again. Emotional upsets got me kinda paralysed these last 6 months or so, but now I’m back, I guess – ok, I’ve said THAT before, but I’ll take it a day at a time. I’ve asked someone to help me with my research one day a week. Given the timeframe left, I can really do with some help + it’ll keep ME going as well. To be totally honest: it also kinda ties in with another ‘thing’ I had given up on – but not really, it seems – and that has to do with the ‘someone’ I’ve asked for help. Maybe it’ll turn out to be not so good an idea, but we’ll see… At the moment, I’m just glad that my thesis is on the go again, that I have a good friend and… what’ll happen, will happen.
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Spali_2007 has this as one of her 43T. Like it and as it so happens I have been ‘working’ on this one for some days. Went shopping for new clothes on tuesday and started psoriasis treatment again (for the first time in 5 years) yesterday. I keep it under the heading of ‘love myself’, because that’s still the general idea: to do things that make me feel confident and good about myself again.
Wiebe – so far so pretty.
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