I'm doing 38 things
i got it!
11 months ago
but still working on the speed part. i NEED to find time to practise.
witchazel's Life List
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1. be less judgemental
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2. Lose 10 pounds
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3. write my own music
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4. Stop caring what other people think of me
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5. have more patience
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6. write like no one's reading
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7. declutter
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8. master the guitar
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9. Take a "one-year off" trip
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10. become a much, much better digital photographer
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11. adopt a cat
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12. Get a job that I enjoy, am proud of, and is fun
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13. get my own apartment
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14. be nicer
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15. love and be loved
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16. get married
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17. Have Kids
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18. Be a better blogger
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19. live passionately
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20. fill all four walls of a room with cds
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21. publish something in a respectable journal, magazine, or edited website
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22. live in another country for a year or two
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23. Speak Cantonese like a real Cantonese
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24. To live instead of exist
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25. Find new (to me) music I love
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26. Learn to play the keyboard
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27. Meet someone who has always wanted to meet me.
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28. get a golden retriever
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29. give my personal living space a facelift
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30. learn to hold my liquor
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31. learn french
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32. learn japanese
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33. Become the person I've always wanted to be
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34. stop procrastinating
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35. compile a list of 100 facts about myself
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36. travel alone
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37. play barre chords proficiently
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38. list 100 things that make me happy
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Recent entries
i acknowledge that this is not 100% achievable...
16 months ago
...because the opinions of people you love/respect WILL always matter. so unless i eliminate such people from my life (and i have no intention of doing so anytime in the foreseeable future), i’ll never be able to click on “i’ve done this” in all truthfulness. BUT, i’ll keep this on my list, to remind myself not to be bothered by the opinions of people who don’t know any better.
it's kinda liberating actually, being less judgemental
16 months ago
i’ve come to believe that when you judge less, you’ll tend to perceive that others are judging you less as well. if such a change in perception sounds like self-delusion, might i add that even if you acknowledge that others may be judging you, their judgement starts to matter less to you. in your mind, you’ll be like, so i see you’re judging me… but that’s ok, you don’t know any better.
hmmm… does that last part count as judging?
