Long ago, I was wounded. I lived
to revenge myself
against my father, not
for what he was—
for what I was: from the beginning of time,
in childhood, I thought
that pain meant
I was not loved.
It meant I loved.
I love this poem.
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learn photography
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Learn to fly
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create something beautiful
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read all of shakespeare
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become a magazine editor
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go abroad
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drink more water
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find love
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love my body
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live passionately
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make a wall-sized painting
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volunteer at an animal shelter
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make a paper crane
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get a cat
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list 43 things I like about myself
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dance all night and then dance some more
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challenge myself more
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write a novel
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act
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meet stephen colbert
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see my name in lights
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collect shells on the beach
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live in the city
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do 43 things and then some
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win the lottery
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write a play
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embrace adventure
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stretch every day
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Finish what I start
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go on a road trip with no predetermined destination
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Start a company that changes the world.
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Read "The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy"
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change someone's life
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start flossing
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Long ago, I was wounded. I lived
to revenge myself
against my father, not
for what he was—
for what I was: from the beginning of time,
in childhood, I thought
that pain meant
I was not loved.
It meant I loved.
I love this poem.
Each of us, I firmly believe, is propelled through life by a restless, inexhaustible need for affection. Why else do we trudge off to work every morning, or withhold farts, or decorate our bodies with precious gems, or attend church, or smile at strangers, or pluck out body hair, or send valentines, or glance into mirrors, or forgive, or try to forgive, or gnash our teeth at betrayal, or pray, or promise, or any of a trillion large and small behaviors that constitute the totality of the human trial on this planet?
All for love.
All to be loved.