I'm doing 13 things
i wish i could just float around like a fairy, not have a care in the world about what other people think. my insecurities are holding me back and stopping me from feeling positive :/
Jen's Life List
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1. be happy with myself
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2. Stop Judging People
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3. be positive
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4. give more hugs
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5. Finish my second year of university with a 2.1
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6. Find a boyfriend who values and brings out the best in me
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7. Give people the benefit of the doubt and see things from their point of view
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8. Believe I can be exactly what I want to be
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9. Find good inspirational quotes
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10. save up and go to new york and florida next year
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11. Go to Paris
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12. See John Mayer live
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13. try and relax around people
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How I did it
It made me
accomplished 
How I did it: i've been working my butt off to get in shape! gyming it 3-4 times a week, choosing healthy options and generally trying to have some self-control! finally reached my 7lb goal!! i think its taken me about 5 weeks, but i honestly feel so much more toned and proud that i managed to reach my goal! Read how I did it…
It made me
happy
How I did it: I've always dressed for myself, but also been influenced by others and now that I'm getting older and surrounded by people who fully accept me for who I am, I wear exactly what I want. The best thing to do is ignore the thought of who's judging you and just be yourself, because at the end of the day, those people don't matter and there's no point in trying to be someone you're not.I don't want to be just another face in the crowd, I'… Read how I did it…
It made me
so happy
How I did it: I gave up on this goal because I had come to accept the fact I wasn't gonna find anyone right for me. my friends said I was picky and that was the problem, but I didn't think so. One night a few weeks ago I was just out having fun with friends and came across a guy who knew one of my friends. From that point we've hung out lots and got on amazingly. I'm very very happy and he is genuinely lovely! So I guess people come along when you leas… Read how I did it…
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Judge not, and you will not be judged; condemn not, and you will not be condemned; forgive, and you will be forgiven.
i dont know why i do it, i hate it and i feel so bad for doing it. i think its a defense mechanism, because i feel like people are judging me and judging me negatively. but the thing is, they probably arent! and i need to stop judging people because judgments are usually wrong anyway and its stopping me from getting to know people. so i need to make a conscious effort not to judge people and remind myself theyre not judging me and are probably worth getting to know.
