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xxgoldstarsxx




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xxgoldstarsxx's Life List

  2. 1. get my ears pierced
    		280 people
  3. 2. crochet a blanket
    		123 people
  4. 3. Learn to ride a bike
    1 entry     		599 people
  5. 4. learn to swim
    1 entry     		2,950 people
  6. 5. stop being co-dependent
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  7. 6. Go to cosmetology school
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  8. 7. Get a tattoo
    		20,249 people
  9. 8. Get my septum pierced
    		210 people
  10. 9. Get a cat
    		869 people
  11. 10. Graduate college
    		2,658 people
  12. 11. Donate blood
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  13. 12. Learn to cook
    		8,172 people
  14. 13. Learn to swing dance
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  15. 14. Be a pinup model
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  16. 15. Learn to play an instrument
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  17. 16. Throw a dart into a map and travel to where it lands
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  18. 17. Be honest
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  19. 18. Start a business
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  20. 19. Get in shape
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  21. 20. Join a bowling league
    		46 people
  22. 21. Be vegan
    		171 people
  23. 22. Read Modern Library's 100 Best Novels of the 20th Century
    1 entry     		557 people
  24. 23. be happy
    1 cheer     		21,831 people
  25. 24. Take more pictures
    1 entry     		14,305 people
  26. 25. Make friends
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  27. 26. make my own jewellery
    		34 people
  28. 27. join a book club
    		424 people
  29. 28. wear skirts more often
    		283 people
  30. 29. be courageous as often as possible
    		83 people
  31. 30. Go on vacation alone
    		24 people
  32. 31. ride a rollercoaster
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  33. 32. get a job
    		10,477 people
  34. 33. keep a journal
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  35. 34. visit all 50 states
    		7,122 people

How I did it
How to break up with my boyfriend
It took me
3 months
It made me
relieved

How I did it: My ex and I had been together for almost two years. Throughout the relationship, he'd had problems with money and taking responsibility for his life, and I had always had some doubts. For the last 3-4 months, I had been unhappy, but I was trying to make it work. Previously, I had tried to break up with him 2 or 3 times, and every time he had talked me into coming back. With life changes coming (I'm moving into my own house soon, working o… Read how I did it…

Apr 11, 01:35PM PDT | 0 comments | 1 cheer


Recent entries
go to cosmetology school
Untitled 6 months ago

I’m a full time student in art school, but every day I wish I had just gone to beauty school instead. I’m not sure how I can do this, or even if I can do this, but I’m going to try.

I contacted a couple schools in my area to set up appointments and get info, so I’m taking some steps toward it and I hope that I can do it :)

May 02, 09:04PM PDT | 0 comments


stop being co-dependent
Untitled 6 months ago

I’ve realized recently that a lot of my past relationships (ok, most all of them) have been characterized by codependent behavior patterns. They’ve all hurt quite a lot and have taken so much out of me emotionally, physically, and psychologically, and I’m now realizing that part of that pain is caused by my own behavior patterns.

I want to stop seeking out the same kind of people and situations- the ones where I always feel like I have to give 115% and get nothing back. I want to learn not to shepherd others at my own expense and to learn to place more value on myself (that sounds horrible to say!)

I suspect that I fall into codependent patterns, but at the same time I’m doubting myself- what if that isn’t it? It just seems too easy that there is a word for my relationships, with support groups and what-have-you. I’m looking into going to a local CoDA meeting (I’m fortunate, there are several), and I suppose I’ll take it from there…

Apr 19, 05:46PM PDT | 1 cheer | 1 comment


Take more pictures
Photo meetup group 7 months ago

I joined a photo meetup group in my area that takes group photo field trips every month or so. I RSVP’d “Maybe” for this month and I hope I can work up the guts and the energy to go.

I figured that maybe making an appointment and getting out with some new people and subjects might renew some enthusiasm and make shooting a habit again.

Apr 11, 01:48PM PDT | 0 comments


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