i really like them.
it depends on the girl though.

What do you mean by spontaneous? Like, she didn’t know she had a date until you showed up at her doorstep? Or during the date, you do something spontaneous?

Depends on whether or not I’ll actually like the date. Make it awesome-spontaneous!

If your definition of spontaneous dates is the same as mine, then yes;

You do want to make sure she’s free that evening so don’t just show up at 4am when she has to be somewhere at 8am the next morning;

But taking her to original places is great, I make all my dates like that, just the two of us, something not all people do on dates, something fun, romantic, etc. =)

Like (personal example) taking her kayaking/rowboating in the summer and rowing her to a small island off-shore and taking a small walk there, maybe even a picnic if the weather permits =)

I believe the consensus is “it depends on the girl”. However, it does not mean that someone who likes to lead a planned, organized life wouldn’t enjoy spontaneous moments with someone she enjoys being with. Just be prepared that she may have something else planned, previous commitments, etc. if by spontaneous you mean landing up at her place without a call. If by spontaneous, you mean taking her to unexpected places or doing things she would like, I would think most women would love that. It would show that you have taken the time to find out what she likes (I hope you have) and as they say, actions speak louder than words. What’s not to love? :)

It depends on the girl, and her personality. It also depends on her schedule. She may very well like spontaneous plans, but there’s always the chance you’ll ask her to do something at the last minute and she won’t be able to. But that was probably pretty self-explanatory anyway.

Myself, I’d love it if I were asked on a sudden date. Mixing things up is always nice. It doesn’t usually happen, though.

i love them especially if you do some research and found out what the girl likes doing or even better something completely original that she won’t have tried before, there is nothing i like more than trying out new things.

well most girls love spontaneous dates- the guys get major points for being creative on dates. it always makes the girl look even more excited for the next upcoming date.

In my experience, they’re usually a good idea. Very romantic.

I don’t think one should try do do something that other people like. It’s my opinion that the best way to pursue a romantic relationship is to be yourself. If you are the kind of person who likes going on spontaneous dates, then plan one and ask someone out. If she doesn’t like it, then she doesn’t like that aspect of you. That might be a deal breaker and it might not.

I think the worst thing a person can do is to behave in a way that really isn’t right for them in order to attract or entice another person to like them. You must be yourself in order to create the foundation for a successful relationship.

This isn’t to say that you shouldn’t try new things or try to expand your tastes and behaviors. However after trying something be honest with yourself and the person you were with as to what you really felt about doing something different than you normally would.

It’s also reasonable to do something that you know someone you love or care for enjoys. Being flexible for someone you love is admirable. When you are truely doing it because you love them and don’t expect anything in return.

Best of luck to you and I hope that you find someone who appreciates your spontaneous dates.

Girls like spontaneous once in while… But we can’t be expected to drop everything at the drop of a hat because some guy has some secret date planned. I have this one friend who constantly used to call me up and say “I’m outside your door, do you want to hang out?” Things like that are not always as fun and exciting as one might think. :)

Depends on the situation. If I am not doing anything and my husband asks me if I would like to go somewhere, that’s awesome. But if I am working and he comes home from work all geared up to go make some spontaneous romance – few things can be more annoying.

Judge by the situation. Don’t make plans and expect your girlfriend to just drop everything instantly for them.

They are THE GREATEST!! Spontaneous ANYTHING is fun to me. Dates…. romantic gestures…. all that stuff. When you become TOO predictable… U become TOO boring!

Well it depends on how spontaneous the guy is.If it isn’t too much,why not?

Hey!

I think that it depends on the person really, in my experience most girls really like them, but you have to make really sure that shes not doing anything (check with her friends!) because as much as shes probably willing to drop everything to go on a date, she may not be able to drop certain things!

Good luck xx