I understand what your saying but maybe he wants to meet you first so he can develop that relationship. Just keep talking with him. You have to think realistically though, is it possible that you both will ever be together and have a future such as marriage?

i would try to keep the relationship strong- and maybe organise to meet up with him if you think the relationship could continue to work as naza733 has said?
remember love is a 2 person game (at least) and the other half of the deal needs to have equal feelings otherwise a relationship cant work

maybe he is the one but maybe he isn’t. If he is he will find a way to you. I get the feeling you see him as a way out or as a way towards happiness. But you have plenty of opportunity to find that happiness and peace within yourself. You just have to look for it, and when you find it you will find that part of yourself that you feel he will fill. Then he or someone even more appropriate will find you.

Love is a teacher until we are ready to experience it fully…even then we go on learning.

Hope this helps it is sent with love.

I genuinely think it’s possible to meet up with him and pursue this love you guys have. there may be many hurdles, but it IS possible for you to travel to him. make it happen! if you believe in something, it’s ALWAYS worth it to fight for it. even if it ends up not working out, I believe you will still be proud of yourself for pursuing it and giving yourself the chance to find out what you’re missing.