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He was my strength and until now

nobody@43things.com (emma castillo) — Fri, 04 Nov 2011 15:28:02 GMT

emma castillo commented on an entry by emma castillo titled "The Heart have Wings that the Brain knows Nothing of..." regarding Find someone who loves me for me:

Thanks Miss Butterfly… for the comment, especially for the enlightenment.

In my life all that I’m really wishing for is to be happy. But I’ve never realized that happiness is only a state of mind…that you can still be happy without anything in your life except God in your heart.

When I’ve decided for that major decision to take part, I’ve felt great numbness…I don’t know what to feel. It was the biggest struggle in my life. I’ve felt trapped in the middle of a wildfire and still need to think of my work. They haven’t gotten any signs from me of my sadness…I’ve tried to be as composed as I could be and continued with my life.

Honestly, it was only God who knows what’s really going on. I never stopped communicating with Him…He was my strength and until now.

Yes, you are right most often help came from least expected. That’s God’s BONUS!

nobody@43things.com (emma castillo) — Fri, 04 Nov 2011 14:07:26 GMT

emma castillo commented on an entry by emma castillo titled "Best Attitude " regarding regret nothing:

Thanks to you Miss Butterfly for the comment…
There will always be struggles in life and to what I feel, that is God’s way of knowing how well one could play a part. We are like actors and actresses with certain roles given at random and at times some twists are made to see one’s flexibility.
Struggles are like spices… it adds flavor. And how good we are in matching solutions to a struggle will make us more confident in any given situation and we will become a better person when you’re able to pass any challenges.
In my life, I have been struggling a lot…and that made me even stronger. I don’t want to feel any regrets, which will only block my way. It’s just a matter of attitude.
Yes, you are right most often help came from least expected. That’s God’s BONUS!

Best Attitude

nobody@43things.com (emma castillo) — Fri, 04 Nov 2011 12:06:07 GMT

emma castillo added an entry about regret nothing:

This is what I am always telling myself not to! In the first place, what’s the need for? Regrets can only make us feel sorrier and unhappy and it can even stop us from moving on. Yes, we couldn’t help from regretting sometimes…that’s an initial reaction from failures. And instead of being so bothered about it, try to be still, fight the negative feelings and in that way you will have a clearer mind to see what next best thing to do to solve whatever is causing the problem. And in the event that you can’t really find a solution, just be calm and have a Plan B… or better to have a Plan C, Plan D and the more the better. Simply it means that there will always be a solution to a problem; we just need to match which Plan is best.

And more importantly, first learn to forgive yourself. That’s the hardest part…why? Because sometimes we simply don’t realize that we are the very reason why we are failing…it’s because of our very own actions. Don’t blame others for our wrong doings or failures…they may be a part of it, but we have to be the one controlling our own lives.

Yes, we sometimes tend to ask help for a solution…but don’t expect too much, that’s the best attitude.

regret nothing

nobody@43things.com (emma castillo) — Fri, 04 Nov 2011 10:47:16 GMT

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The Heart have Wings that the Brain knows Nothing of...

nobody@43things.com (emma castillo) — Fri, 04 Nov 2011 10:23:25 GMT

emma castillo added an entry about Find someone who loves me for me:

When the topic is about LOVE… That could be best explained as mutual feelings, right? It takes two to tango…!

How would we know that you are being loved by a friend, colleagues, or our partners? When you don’t even know how to love yourself?

Honestly, I hate to talk about love. It’s been a while that I’ve been keeping this to myself; just I wanted to show others that I can live without it and that I’ll be fine. I am among those who had been living a shadow life “emotionally battered” unfortunate group, ‘thought it was fair to stay away from the topic and best to keep my silence. I was made to believe that I’ve been loved… married for more than 20 years only to realize that I am not really happy. However, I preferred not to feel any regrets because it was my choice… to be on that situation… I’ve valued the sacredness of marriage, no matter what…? This is a tough Rule of Catholic Church and I want to keep the Commandments as much as I could but once in our lifetime we have to make a crucial decision and choosing between Love, Life and Religion and my feelings …I’ve asked God’s forgiveness. I’ve realized that in life we always do have options. And we sometimes just need to get badly hurt to know that it was the wrong one.

I admired people who are good at arguments, who can really be bold at times when they have to; who can easily threw bad words without minding others feelings just to get even…because I can’t do all that. I remember when my sister had told me to “Scream” to “Cry” to “Release my Feelings”....but I don’t know how. Or, I just don’t need to do all that because I have God with me to protect me. That’s all I know and that’s how I feel. As long as I have faith, I can let go of any unhappy moments in my life…just let go and move on. I feel loved by God because he made me realized so many things… To be stronger at times of trials, to be calm and still and mindful of words always, to be just happy with who you are, what you have and to be always thankful for every single day.

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nobody@43things.com (emma castillo) — Fri, 04 Nov 2011 09:16:39 GMT

emma castillo added an entry about to be an internet marketer and earn a passive income.:

Hi, my name is Emma Castillo from Philippines. I’ve started exploring Internet Marketing when after feeling a bit frustrated working all my life as an ordinary employee without having any accomplishment at all…I’ve felt I wanted something for a change and then eventually found myself searching over the net for some possibilities to earn a passive income online. I was really skeptical at first but the desire to learn and to take part of that “Change” had been the ultimate objective and my focus to strive even more. Yes, there are still much about to learn…it’s overwhelming indeed I admit but with the right program, a proper mindset and a positive attitude there’s nothing that anyone couldn’t handle in the most difficult times. I will take this journey with the belief and hope for a much promising future…in IM.

Find someone who loves me for me

nobody@43things.com (emma castillo) — Fri, 04 Nov 2011 08:47:17 GMT

emma castillo adopted this goal

to be an internet marketer and earn a passive income.

nobody@43things.com (emma castillo) — Fri, 04 Nov 2011 08:42:08 GMT

emma castillo adopted this goal