There’s nothing wrong with getting pretty underwear, IF you want it! It can make the person wearing it feel sexier. :)
And I don’t think you’re “overreacting” at all. If you’re dating, of course this is something to consider.
I do think in general we are too critical of our own bodies. We are used to thinking about being looked at and judged rather than focusing on the fun things we want to do in bed (or, you know, wherever.)
Yeah, definitely you should have condoms on hand if you think it’s going to happen. Some KY if you think you might need it.
As far as time frame, I think the most important question is what feels good to you? 2 days ago