evoxus

might just kill me for sure! but i will give it a go sometime maybe next week. on one of my “rest days” wont be much of a rest day after all lol.

challenge accepted! 3 months ago

workout in a very empty gym…. maybe 4 people in the whole gym. what a way to spend a saturday night… but it was quality time, and i enjoyed it so what! 3 months ago

love that song too! steve harley was such a hottie back in the day! didnt know that bout the song :) 3 months ago

this on tuesday this week past, but i forgot to mark it as done on here.

was really really good and much needed. 3 months ago

i jsut looked at your profile and saw that you are from cape town, south africa, thats where im from originally! but now i live in england. where about do you live? nice to see a fellow cape townian on here. hope you enjoy 43things :) 3 months ago

enough… i jsut posted this song on my music and things i love goal. and i had posted that i probably have this song on that list at least twice already but i love it so much. and yes it does “speak” to me. i can relate to it very well. love the lyrics… love his voice. love it all.

and here you are with your apt question so here it is again :)

sad eyes – bruce springsteen3 months ago

pretty sure i have put the song on this list at least twice already, but i love it so…

so here it is, been listening to this this morning

sad eyes – bruce springsteen3 months ago

deleted it. bye bye and good riddance.

sounds silly but feels like a weight lifted off my shoulders, and just this tiny little act feels empowering. 3 months ago

day :) 3 months ago

is beautiful. cheer :) 3 months ago

sucks jin, feel for you :( 3 months ago

Someone said:
“the wise, the high virtues charm, only mediocre seduces.”
1. do u agree with the saying? no – anyone can charm and anyone can seduce. it has nothing to do with how intelectual/wise u are or are not.
2. how do you normally flirt? im rubbish at flirting but when i do, i smile alot, blush a little sometimes, and look the guy in the eye a number of times – make the connection, or catch his eye if hes not too close to me.
3. how did guy/girl flirted with u? lots of eye contact, smile/grinning, little winks, asks questions about me, and he gave me a coffee on the house for no reason lol :)
4.is it about how (s)he flirt? or about the appearance that attracted you? both, i like if they show a bit of confidence, even if they shy, to make the attempt of flirting. attraction will always be part of it.
5. are there any kinds of flirting turn you off or even piss u off (cheap)? rude esp sexual/chauvenistic comments, staring, men whistling as walking down the street, really crappy one liners, calling me love, darling, hun, sweeetie when i barely/dont know u, ugh – that seriously pisses me off
6. do u normally happy when being flirted or only on certain condition? certain kinds of flirting? only if i like the person whos flirting with me
7.did u ever experience an impulse to approach a stranger who u really want to get? how’s the stories ended up? many times but i usually do nothing about it, am a big coward
8.what is the first thing on the body u pay attention on a guy/girl before u know this person? why? eyes and smile – cos i like the eyes… they are the windows of the soul, and people have all sorts of different eyes that make your face interesting. not talking eye colour, some have big eyes, others smaller, how the eyes are situated on the face, the way a person will look at things, or contemplates things and how it shows in their eyes too. and there can be an unspoken conversation between 2 people via the eyes, its quite thrilling. eye colour is also nice too. smile for the same reasons as the eyes really, if they are smiling, grinning, laughing alot around u, then you know they are happy and relatively positive. and if they smile and grin alot while talking with u, then they probably like u or are flirting with u.
9. what apparel of opposite sex would attract u?(excluding under wears & make-up). pictures speaks louder than words here. hmmm i dont like guys who dress up too much, who spend too much money wearing the latest this and that. designer jeans and shoes and expensive stuff. so i like the opposite of that. as long as what he is wearing is clean and fits him and suits him.
10. why women smoking has to be interpreted as `that way’/flirting/sexually-inviting while it’s just smoking like men do?!well i dont think all men think that, it is a broad statement. only some men think that, others are repulsed by smoking by men or woman. i have no idea why they think it is sexy tho. maybe it is the phalic symbol??? ask a guy who likes it??? im intrigued to know myself. 3 months ago

with true love as it is with ghosts; everyone talks about it, but few have seen it.

- francois de la rochefoucauld 3 months ago

give up facebook for lent. i will only miss it for my fitness and nutrition pages that i subscribe to. otherwise its not a big deal. i completely forgot aobut this yesterday so am starting today. will kind of be hard cos i go on fb when im bored alot. but i did this last year and i can do it again! so here we go… adios facebook! 3 months ago

scooterbird! and thats why i choose to not do online dating anymore. hear hear :) 3 months ago

session in the gym today.. despite being ill… for most of this week and end of last week… felt better for workign out.

now just workout sat and sunday and i am done for week 5 of this trainer! 3 months ago

session in the gym today.. despite being ill… for most of this week and end of last week… felt better for workign out.

now just workout sat and sunday and i am done for week 5 of this trainer! 3 months ago

is nice and shorter, shoulder length now with layers. will be easier to manage and keep neater now. jsut have to get used to ahving short hair agian. makes a change. feels lighter. its short but not too short its jsut right for me. 3 months ago

I actuaaly feel the worst I have felt since being sick this past week. Another sleepless night filled with coughing fits, ( I wouldn’t be surprised if I’m keeping my neighbours up at night at this rate!) and the cold is much worse today and been sneezing a lot, contemplated just staying in today but I wanted to get some errands and stuff done and most importantly I need to get my gym work outs in for the rest of this week. Just have to grin and bear it later. Will be fine I once am in gym and working out I guess. Seriously this is the longest I have been struggling with being ill and I have been fighting it out. Still going! But yeah regardless how awful I feel, gym is non negotiable later and tomoz and sunday. No pain, no gain. 3 months ago

In the hairdressers, waiting to get my hair cut shorter to my shoulders, maybe few layers put in in front. Hair is getting too long and unmanageable and there fore messy so time for a change! And time for shorter hair, hope will feel like a new person. Shorter hair makes me look even younger I’ve been told so its cool with me. More childish but I’m really not bothered I need a change. 3 months ago

for valentines day :)

isley brothers – this old heart of mine3 months ago

i have a crush on a guy right now. and i beleive its mutual. where it will go… i really dont know. i dont think he does either… we are both a bit shy. but hes mades some obvious moves so im jsut waiting for him to make more. if he wants to go that way.

its been a long time since i had a crush on anyone… so am enjoying it for what it is. part of me thinks there is no hope in this crush if it ever became a relationship. i dont know.

interesting/intense/terrifying crush stories as an adult. he works at a deli/coffee shop chain… he is algerian. ive been going there for a long time… months and months… almost a year now. and always thought he was cute. slowly but surely we have had the odd little chat, which he always initiated. he makes comments, or asks questions about me but this has only been more recently. most of the time we jsut make eyes at each other and greet and then i place my order. 2 days ago i went to get my usual skinny late… and he told me i could have it on the house! for no particualr reason. i was a bit gobsmacked. i asked twice if he was sure, he just smiled and nodded. so yesterday i went there and gave him a small chocolate to say thanks for my free coffee. he then offered me another coffee on the house to which i refused lol. so we chatted a little more. he asked more questions about me. and i him. it was quite nice. i felt a bit nervous giving him the choc, but glad i did it.

Has a crush ever gone beyond just that? time will tell if this crush will. i really dont know. lots of mixed up feelings, and its been like this for many months. i do know its not one sided cos even when we dont talk, its all in the eye contact and stuff. i really dont know. the ball is now in his court. i am not gonna do anything more, beside the odd chit chat. i am not initiating anything as i cant bear the rejection.

Ever crushed while already with someone? sure when in past relationships, i had the odd crush. but never acted on them. they soon faded anyway.

Ever discover being someone else’s crush? no, unless u count this current crush 3 months ago

me! 3 months ago

coco before chanel. was french with english subtitles. it was ok. nice enough. not too dramatic or exciting. 3 months ago

i have gone to bed earlier the last few nights, in bed by midnight, i have struggled to sleep these last few nights, as i ahve a horrible cough since last week friday. and its been keeping me up at night, as i have these awful coughing fits at night as well as in the day. keep having to wake up to drink water or get more water. sometimes i jsut get very little sleep at all.

wish it would go already. i have already finished a bottle of cough mixture in 3 days! need to buy more. 3 months ago

to drinking green tea in the evening. drink coffee in the morning or afternoon. 3 months ago

drugs.

was ok. not that great. wouldnt recommend. 3 months ago