I dread day 5. Thats always the wall for me. 2 months ago
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I’m setting boundaries, slowly, realistically.
First, I said no thinking of people who are close to me, like.. people you should never think about.
That feels like I’m cool with it, and so I feel at peace.
Than, I’m saying- don’t think of the same person twice.
I did this before and remained pure, with augmentation from spiritual stuff & other goals, for over 6 months. I didn’t actually really have a lustful thought.
So we’ll see how this goes. Ya’ll can keep me accountable, and I can you. 6 months ago
i have been doing it for the past 12years and is sick of the empty feeling it creates 15 months ago
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- Want to quit Masturbating all the way?
See you there,
Dax 15 months ago
Basically, if we focus on the negative (i.e. “DON’T FAIL”) it seldom works out; I know how that words out in sport, lol- or “don’tsaysomethingstupid, donsaysomethingstupid…” HA HA Ha.
So, this goal is inherently in every other goal:
ENJOY the great things in life, let’s not settle for the lesser ones.
Just a personal testimony too- its definitely a cause of being single wayyy too long, and/or failing marriages. Because when we do- we tend to have tunnel vision on replacing our hand- with a person. Isn’t it so? I think like that sometimes..
So to a year, a month, a day, a moment- of enjoyment. Let’s have the enjoyment that lasts,
and builds us up- along with the earth.
Death has no hold over such memories.
True love ya’ll. Let’s enjoy the BEST, we can all do that. 16 months ago
I’m now on day 14 of not masturbating and I feel a lot better. Some days are easier than others, but I know I always feel better when I am taking control over my own actions. I’m geting better with not asking myself questions about the long term. I was always asking “will I ever be able to masturbate and it be a healthy more normal situation?” and “How will this affect any future relationship?” I still would like to know the answers ofcourse but I don’t need to know now. I just need to get through each day and every day I get through without it, is a good one. I’m really surprised about how much happier I am just because I’m not masturbating. It was something I always did to feel better, but in the end it doesn’t do that; it never did. I hope I continue to be strong and one day this won’t be so all consuming. I hope we can all be here for each other. 20 months ago
For me the key seems to be not so much “giving up” or “stopping” but just not being a masterbater. Just don’t and if you do dont panic just clean up and get back to not doing it. Sex and Wet Dreams are better. 2 years ago
It started when I was about 12 or 17 or maybe somewhere in between where I was at the state mental hospital for anger issues. A young man would sneak into my room to suck me off. At the time I was so dimwitted, Not knowing much about sex yet everyone around me knew. Well, I also didn’t know about Masturbation at the time and when I was taught by the kids there what it was I tried it when I got home thinking nothing would happen but I could do it constantly. I turned the lights off and when I was done I thought I was bleeding only to find it being cum. I didn’t know what the stuff was so I freaked out and ran to the bathroom to clean. It felt so good, In my mind I thought ‘Gee, I can do this every day!’ I thought it was awesome until now. I am 26 and it has just become a pastime for me, an addiction that frightens me to death and I want to stop doing it. It is immoral and I hate it. SUGGESTIONS PLEASE! 2 years ago