stop caring what others think.

I’m afraid I may be getting too good at this… 2 years ago

My goal of not caring about others is associated with my other goal of being more confident. I’m too insecure about myself that I judge others like random people – like o look at that guy, man he’s probably way cooler than me- well I’m going to try to toughen up and not care about what other people think even though its going to be a long journey. Wish me luck 2 years ago

i’m getting waaaaay better at this. 3 years ago

yup . 3 years ago

People like to talk about me.
I’ve heard some crazy shit about myself.

I need to not care, it’s destroying me. 3 years ago

To gain respect and recognition from others we need to learn to respect ourselves. It’s a high step to take, but taking it definitely pays off. 3 years ago

This is a very hard goal to complete. Worrying about what others think is so deeply engrained in me that it will take a huge effort to change. I think firstly it’s important to recognise actions I take or don’t take that are affected by what other people might think or say and THEN try to modify them next time around. Just got to keep chipping away. 4 years ago

i really need to do this,, i am very insecure about myself and dont really know who i am, i try to cover it by being obnoxiously loud and outgoing, people view me as dumb,when i really am not, i am just afraid to let my true self show, which i havent figured out who it is. 4 years ago

i really struggle with people pleasing. it is so ingrained in me that sometimes i don’t even notice it!
lately i’ve been really working on this and it’s changed a lot of things for me because i’ve had to put boundaries on relationships that were unhealthy.

so worth dealing with it though. i’m glad i see it and am able to have the strength to change it despite it’s difficulties. 4 years ago

Im Kasey. 8th grade.
on the outside: Outgoing, Happy, smiles-alot, nice
on the inside: Worried, Insecure, Willing, Careing, Loveing

welcome to my life.
im not gong to spend long on how people know me as, and how they see me.
because im trying not to care.
the inside, yeah, well, thats what im trying to fix here.
i need to stop worrying about what others think so much.
and baseing my actions off of it.
i shouldnt be doing and saying things so people will think better of me.
i need to rely on god more.
i would like to loose a pound or two.
i would like to not only be known as “popular”

and i wish i would stop oppsessing over what bryan and shelby think of me, and worring that somethings wrong.

for once, im going to be honest with myself.
and im going to find out who i am. 4 years ago