Be confident

easier said than done, but I made some progress in last 6 months 1 month ago

Lately I’ve been thinking about how hard it is to be a girl in the society we live in. There is so much pressure to look a certain way, act a certain way, dress a certain way, that it’s really hard to love yourself for who you are. There is nothing I want more then to be comfortable in my own skin, instead of comparing myself to girls that are complete opposites of me. I am who I am, whether I like it or not. I need to learn to not only accept myself, but love myself. 3 months ago

Ahhh… so much to say about this. There is so much damage in my life that really effects this. I really want to be more confident and I want to project that confidence onto others. 6 months ago

Its been 2 years and 2 months since I been on this site and I have made some progress. I’m still shy but I’m more confident then before. So far I have been practicing believing in myself and not worrying what others think of me.

Also, I finally created a Youtube account and fashion blog because that is something I have been wanting to do for a long time. I believe I will be able to gain more confidence by putting myself out there and expressing myself.

I should use social networking as a way to break that mental block I have. I hardly ever go on Facebook becasue I’m too shy to do anything on there and I don’t really care to do anything on there. If I force myself to post a status or comment a day, that will help me become comfortable with expressing myself. 6 months ago

Everything in life is better when we have our confidence “chinned up”, I want to have that feeling as well. Im very insecure at the moment and it sucks…i cant even make simple decisions for myself, i cant even rise my hand in class!! thats how annoying it is! 9 months ago

i just always seem to hide my true self , i need to be confident and let go 10 months ago

Ii am tired of being afraid of being myself….of being afraid of being rejected….and just speaking up about my beliefs….being quiet because I’m afraid of being judged…. I wanna be confident in my body and in my ability to do things. 17 months ago

1) Look in the mirror and smile for a min each morning
2) Say “You are beautiful, you are strong, you can do this”
3) Notice negative self talk and correct it
4) Accept that no one’s perfect 19 months ago

i would love to be confident in my body and to be able to go into any shop i want and be able to fit into any of the clothes that i want, i do not dress how i would like as im too overweight im just now who i want to be and i am finally doing something about it but i just cannot wait until i hae confidence in myself and body 20 months ago

Everyone thinks I am the most confident person they have met; but honestly I have no confidence. I go home everyday wishing so much to be pretty & all this other stuff. Any advice for me? 20 months ago