Positivity. It’s a tricky one. I’ve had my account for over 8 years now and this was one of my first goals. Looking back I always kept it up there, as a reminder of sorts. Now with more wisdom I appreciate the power of optimism but I also value the importance and meaning of other emotions, including those of negativity. Because even they have their place and purpose in life. I am no longer a chaser of happiness for it is a fruitless endeavour. Instead I try my best to live in the present and to accept negative thoughts for what they truly are: just words. Nothing more. In doing this I have come to view life more positively. Learning that happiness is simply a bonus when one lives in the present can be a difficult lesson but one that I cherish. 2 weeks ago
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We have a morale problem at my workplace. My company does a survey every year to gauge employee morale, and this year it shows to be the lowest it has ever been. My boss is even been very negative and he is suppose to be our leader.
So the question to our team: What do we do to get our team’s morale and motivation back?
Now I am never one to offer any ideas on this type of question. In fact I am well known at work to be the guy who sees the glass as half empty, and leaking. But I did offer one suggestion. That was to just keep a positive attitude about work. The problems we have are solvable, we just have to find the help from others in the company, be smart, and work through the issues. I even suggested to help focus the positive attitude that people should daily list the five things they are grateful for.
Several people on the team were somewhat dumbstruck that it was I who was suggesting these things. “What the heck has got into Bob” was the basic thought.
To tell the truth, I could not believe I brought up the things I did. I’m not sure it will help our team much, but it has helped me. And much of the credit I give is to 43Things and all the people here. The goals, the cheers, the conversations, the encouragement and support have done more for my attitude than anything else I have experienced.
So thank you to everyone here. You have done so much for me. I love you all. 1 month ago
Sometimes just smile at the strangers on the street and becoming a smile back, makes me feel so happy. It’s a small nice gift we can share without paying for that, can make your day a little bit better. :) 2 months ago
Since my last relationship 3 years ago i now realised that I don’t have many friends and I’m not much fun to have around. Mainly because I am pretty negative and always see the bad things first. It started with sentences like “I don’t care” and it has developed to huge pessimism. I want to be happy again and see the good things in life.
Good luck to all 2 months ago
nothatfreaki dont think people realize how important being positive is and how much affects our lives!
i highly recommend everyone to try to do this… it has such a impact in every single aspect of our life – which by the way, gets much easier when you stop complaining and being negative. good vibes all the way! :D 3 months ago
Today I did the 2013 Year in Review on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/yearinreview/anne.alicia
Looking at this list of the top 20 things I’d done this year made me realize how positive our online lives look. It hides how I felt about myself, how un-focused I was at changing the things that dissatisfied me, and how my negative energy effected my family and others around me. Instead, it shows me at my happiest, proudest moments: visiting friends in New York, celebrating my first puppy’s birthday, making new best friends, having fun on the water this summer, and enjoying wonderful funny moments with my darling husband.
THAT’S HOW I WANT TO BE!! I want to be that happy, that proud, all the time! And why not? I have control over that. I deserve to feel that way. My family deserves for me to be that way.
New resolution, starting today: Be more positive, in all things. Not just for me – but for everyone my life touches. 4 months ago
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Grace. 5 months ago