Be a high quality person

I’m not. 22 months ago

I wonder if I’m doing this? 22 months ago

at this moment in time… the way i been behaving. i know i am not one. :( 2 years ago

will always choose quality over quantity. you pay for what you get. if you buy cheap quality of clothes or food or household furniture etc… dont be suprised when it falls apart, doesnt work anymore or tastes not as great as quality items. and then you have to spend money replacing them agian. unlike if you buy something thats of quality it can last for years or in terms of food, it tastes amazing.

also less is more… i think this could apply pretty much to everything in life. dont eat to much if your not hungry. talk less, listen more. over indulgence in anything is probably not good for you. learn to declutter your home of all the clutter so you can enjoy ur home more. think before you spend, do you really need this item? also keep things simple, dont overcomplicate things, worries, stress. these things are only in the now, you will ahve forgotton about it next week, next month, next year etc… so dont stress and do or say things you will regret now, cos ur stressed about it now. learn the art of restraint.

less is more in terms of make up, jewelry and accsessorys, and if you dont have anything nice to say, dont say it. dont bitch and gossip.

the best things in life are trully free. dont give importance to materialistic things. 2 years ago

quality person – has a right to be angry, but not to be mean.

this is here because my bf and i had a huge argument a few days ago that i started out of the blue, cos i was tired and grumpy and just got in from work.(it was 1am ish) he said something silly randomly not on purpose and i gave him grief about being sarcastic and then i went off on one about another issue in our relationship that i wasnt happy about… him not pulling his weight etc gave him grief about that. we had a huge old argument, where we both wished eached other a nice life alone and went to bed. it was horrible. all cos of me, cos of my mood swings, cos of my stress, cos i havent seen him in 5 months, cos of pms etc.

i still feel the way i do bout what i was cross about, he knows im not finding these issues easy, and he knows he needs to do his bit. but there is no need for me to be nasty. we have since made up. i apologised, him being the amazing guy, who generally remains calm through my emotional moments, tho he was cross with me, forgave me and loves me unconditionally. but has told me he wont be spoken to like that, i was horrible. a high quality person doesnt treat people like that, especially the ones they love. 2 years ago

what does this mean????

i think it means someone who:

takes pride in their appearance
someone who is kind and considerate to people in general and shows interest in others
someone who likes to learn new things and has interests that keeps them busy
someone who looks after their health and fitness and eats a generally healthy diet
someone who likes to get to know people and make new friends as well as develop and enjoy existing friendships
someone who has a good sense of humour, liking to laugh and having a ready smile
being warm, friendly and outgoing
being authentic and unpretentious
someone who is vivacious, perky and engaged in life
someone who is relaxed and easy going
someone who is easy to talk to and non judgemental
someone who spends/makes quality time with family and friends
someone who takes calculated risks and aims for their goals/dreams
someone who oozes charm and charisma, people jsut want to be around you, basking in ur glow.
someone who believes in themselves
someone who helps out, mucks in, volunteers
someone who takes time out to treat/pamper themselves
someone who has a good work life balance
someone who steers away from gossip, negativity and people and things that invite negativity in life

lots of things there to work on… no one can be perfect… but i would like to try my best to strive to be a high quality person, with these type of values. if i think of anything else… i will add to this goal. but for now these will do.

i will be exploring the values above as well as some of my thoughts and beliefs on what i think this all means to me in future entries. 2 years ago

Outlasts quantity. It means to be disciplined. Most importantly, it starts with organization and simplicity. A calm, positive persistence towards the end results we want.

I should think of an end result and work backwards to where I am in this moment so I know what my next step is. I will focus on quality as an individual, as a man, and as a friend and family member to those around me. 2 years ago