be fearless

When I say I want to be fearless I mean that i want to take more risk. I am always doing everything the safe way. Not only socially but also dance wise. I want to be able to dance like there are no rules & I want to live like there are now rules. 4 months ago

I have engaged with some challenging things. A lot that would have overwhelmed me 2 years ago. But even though I’m facing my fears, there always seems to be another one behind it. 8 months ago

• I easily post a status update or photo on Facebook without any thought or nervous energy. Rather my energy is fun, collaborative, and has a friendly vibe.
• I post helpful blogs that people enjoy reading.
• I find my voice and am not afraid to use it in a supportive and helpful way.
• I am not afraid of being perceived as stupid or incompetent because only I can make myself feel that way. I choose to believe I am a helpful contributor and I am valued and loved. 13 months ago

Looking at me from the outside people think I’m pretty confident and at times I believe it myself. I can speak in front of groups of people at work without a single butterfly in my stomach. Then, the thought of putting myself out there on sites such as Facebook or blogging/vlogging (which is something I want to do) for some reason makes me fearful. Images of people scowling at my posts or guffawing at my stupidity are what pop in my head. So, this goal is about me getting over my fear of “being seen.” I do my best to stay under the radar sometimes because I don’t want to “get in trouble,” (Wait a minute…really? I mean, who will I get in trouble with?—Oh wait…my Mom, that’s who. Hmmm…I’m seeing a theme here of childhood fears showing up in the present. Interrrresting. Gotta keep my eye on that.)

Anyway, my goal is to post pictures, wins, losses, thoughts, etc. here and then branch out. What better place to start to be fearless than on a goal-setter site? 13 months ago

Pink Floyd’s “Fearless” on the album Meddle is what makes me want to be fearless.
Not rude or crass, simply no longer afraid and just start enjoying life. 14 months ago

The exorcism of emily rose yesterday :O :p
And went for the balloon ride in goa..that was scary..
Did not do parasailing though..chickened out :p
Well, maybe next time 14 months ago

is just that – healthy.

I think I’ve been taking major life steps (such as moving out and dealing with a huge work contract) with a tiny bit of fear, but mostly with excitement and motivation. I feel a bit of fear about little things, too (like when my boyfriend was supposed to come over but fell asleep and I couldn’t reach him for four hours, or how to tell my dad that I won’t be spending Thanksgiving with him this year). But I think I’m at the point where it’s not holding me back, but rather propelling me forward.

I don’t know if this should be “complete” or if I’m “giving up.” I don’t feel like I’ve failed. But I don’t feel like this is a priority anymore, either. If I fall back into my fear-stunned ways, I’ll reopen this goal. But for now, I feel pretty good. 18 months ago

This fear is forcing me to reevaluate a lot of things in my life. I made some mistakes and wrong choices and they’re finally catching up to me. Not BAD things, just wrong. It sucks because I know I can’t go back and fix the things I’ve ruined, and I don’t know how to make new things.

Vague enough. 20 months ago

this goal is not easy and i had to face it i was invited into a dinner at a resturant i was so shy i couldn’t look people in the eye i never said a word i was so scared i feel bad about this .. it’s a very hard goal to achive but i will never give up , i know that when i become fearless my life will change drasticlly i will be able to do anything ANYTHING that i want to do . 21 months ago

when there are so many things to fear.

_{That’s the short story. No energy to get into the long story.}21 months ago