Deepen my friendships

tonight i went out with my roommate and 2 girls that i’ve been becoming good friends with. it was fun to actually go out to applebees with them rather than just saying that we were going to hang out..but this time actually doing it! it was really fun!

this past semester ive really gotten close with 2 of my roommates. its been really great. i mean..we were all friends before..but ive really spent alot of time with these girls and i feel like our friendships are on such a deeper level then before and its great. for the first time in a while, i have some really good girl friends.

in our apartment we were having some major drama that wasnt needed at all. so the other day we just sat down and pretty much let everything out. it was nice because we are all generally the type of people that never say anything when something is bothering us..so to get it all out in the open was great. i know for myself there were things that i never thought about before that i do that might have an effect on people. it was good..and i feel like our friendships went a little deeper in doing that.

had a really good conversation with one of my newer guy friends today. it was really cool to see a deeper level of our friendship happening. i learned alot about him that i never knew. it was great.

just rescue all the friendships that are floundering right now?

that may be a better goal for me right now.

i have been going through lately ive become alot closer with some people and developing deeper relationships with them.
at the same time..im also distancing myself from some people.
its times like this where you learn who your friends are and who is really there for you. and its better that way..id rather lose the people who arent really friends to deepen some friendships with people who are really great.

spent some quality time with my roommate and her family today.
just what i needed.
i love the fact that we live like 5 minutes away from each other when we are away from school.

im trying to make a list of all the ways i can do this(genuinely)

any suggestions?

i dont have many female friends..because well..i just dont generally get along with them..but im super excited to be home because my friend michelle and i have been hanging out alot and working on our friendship which was once awesome and then lost. its great because i feel like she is one person that i can really talk to..but also in this..i want to make sure she feels the same way because i absolutely hate when its one sided. i want our friendship to be deep on both sides.

theres this girl lauren. and shes super cool and really sweet. and today we were just talking about how neither of us have any really good girl friends..and we get along so well..so we decided that it would probably be a good idea if we hung out more..which would definitely deepen our friendship which right now is pretty surfacey.