Marilyn Monroe
As I sit here listening to Elton sing it best…
“And it seems to me you lived your life
Like a candle in the wind
Never knowing who to cling to
When the rain set in”
I cannot agree more. Marilyn Monroe, born Norma Jeane Baker was always a girl with a seemingly lost soul. From the day she was born she never really had a place to “belong”. Norma Jeane was born to a mentally unstable and financially unable mother only to then be placed with foster parents. When Norma Jeane was 7 her biological mother returned and tried to kidnap her right in front of her foster mother. A few months later, Norman Jeane’s foster mother began having mental episodes and she was then declared a ward of the state and placed into the care of a guardian.
Norma Jeane lived with this guardian until she married a man who wanted to have her sent to an orphanage when she was 9. Several families wanted to adopt Norma Jeane but her original foster mother would not sign the paperwork to allow it. Eventually, Norma Jeane moved back with the guardian and her husband. However this ended when he frequently attempted to sexually assault her.
Normal Jeane was then sent to live with her great-aunt when she was of middle-school age. However, while there her great-aunt’s son also assaulted her, allegedly sexually. Norma Jeane went to live with her guardian and her husband once again when she was 16 years old, but only for a few months because they eventually moved across country but would not take her.
A family once again wanted to adopt her but Norma Jeane’s foster mother would not sign the papers. Norma Jeane’s boyfriend at the time was influenced by her guardian to marry the young girl so she would not have to return to the orphanage. So she was married for the first time at age 16.
It is no wonder why Norma Jeane never knew “who to cling to” and had inappropriate behaviors later in life that probably stemmed from such an unstable and emotionally damaging childhood.
She eventually started her modeling career and landed her first film contract at the age of 20. In 1999 she was ranked as the 6th greatest film star of all time by the American Film Institute. Marilyn Monroe died at the young age of only 36 and it truly is a shame that her candle burned out far too soon…but I’m glad her legend never did.
A favorite quote of mine:
“I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they’re right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.”
— Marilyn Monroe 3 months ago