Tell people what I really think

I need to learn how to speak my mind &&not just stand in the background

Definitely worth it. Manipulating people only causes more problems. Just be straight with them. The truth is going to eventually come out anyway.

I hate the part of me that questions every single thought that I think about speaking. Sometimes I wish that I would just say what’s on my mind without thinking about it. In other words “to wear my mind where all can see”.

I know this isn’t the best way to live because of all the hurtful things I could say…but it certainly wouldn’t leave any doubt that people knew how I felt.

I’‘m so sick and tired of cleaning up after my shitty housemates. But i need to tell them that. At this point all I do is complain to my boyfriend about how much I dislike them. I need to start telling them that I refuse to put up with the mess and I won’t clean up anymore.
I need new housemates, actually I need NO housemates. It’d be nice only to be accountable for yourself.
Maybe the goal should be to ‘Get rid of my housemates!’

What’s stopping you?

It might be worth thinking about.

You know what! Im through with being nice, Im sick to death of being shit on, im always being told ” Im to nice” “special” loving caring generous, sick of it, what they really mean is ” your a nice girl, but hey we are really gonna just use you and then treat me like shit, cause your too nice to say No or to stick up for yourself, For a while i have been feeling low, due to personal issues in my life, and guess what i thought i found a friend, someone to confide in someone that listens….......

There are times when it’s best not to say anything and just be left wondering if you had. Because wondering if you hadn’t can be just as bad.
Then there’s where what you think crushes someone else and you had no idea it would even bother them.
I’m still for the truth-it’s just rough to always give a straight-up answer because you land in messes of trouble and drama. Some say it’s worth it, guess I still don’t know about that.

I have come to see that telling people what I really think is actually very important. I used to just get myself into trouble by telling people what I thought, but the Lord has been growing me through that and I am now more tactful :)

I’m doing this enough to call it done.

..tell people what i really think of them, it drives me mad when i just agree with people for the sake of it but then i make myself mad because what i really want to be able to say is NO!