This isn’t an easy goal to achieve and it isn’t something that you can just say I’m gonna do it and it’s done. This is something that lingers. I’ve had people hurt me emotionally and physically and I learned from these happenings.
However I think of my life as a book with chapters upon chapters. Those past chapters I am done with, and for the chapters being written I want nothing less than an interesting story, good attitude and a positive outlook. My Life is whatever I make it. I am my maker. Your past is past. You are done with it. let it go and things will be easier and happier from now to forever! 4 years ago
all said and done, learn to move on and just remember your stronger because of it! 4 years ago
I will go ahead and mark this complete. The past isn’t something you can forget, but I’m done dragging those issues into my current life. I’m no longer holding the past against the people that hurt me. Those people are still in my life and will remain there, all it does is harm the relationships if I can’t get past them. So I’m done with this. I’ve let it all go. 5 years ago
but talking to a few people and to THAT person helps.
and realizing where i stand or where i want to stand in MY life helps a lot too. :) 5 years ago
getting to know you better. i thought i was even falling for you. but once again, i’ve only fell for what i thought i saw in you, which was really myself.
you’re still beautiful, no doubt. but beauty is not enough, if it doesn’t come with a calm and steady soul for one to be comfortable with.
i hope the best for you. 5 years ago
I have to realize that even though alot of people in my past have hurt me, not everyone in my future will. By allowing myself to dwell on things in the past, im not allowing myself to enjoy my life, as it is now. 5 years ago
I used to hate people who were mean or did things i didn’t like. Now that i’ve matured i have over come those things and the things that people still do. I am learning to forgive a lot faster and to not hold grudges on anyone or anything. I hugely suggest to do this goal because when you hold grudges it gets bottled inside of you and can change the way you think and feel. I think if you forget about the things you hold against people you will feel better and less stressed. 5 years ago
i think i’m one of those ‘highly sensitive people’. sometimes i don’t want to be, but there it is, it’s a part of me that i’m tired of arguing with because at the end of the day, i look in the mirror and sometimes feel like i hate myself. there is just too much thinking and reflecting…
maybe it’s not (some) people that have hurt me, but it’s me. delusions; imagining that i’m being attacked, when… people are just people. -we don’t mean to hurt or cause pain towards others, but we do… and maybe i just have to keep telling myself that it’s okay.. don’t cry over spilt milk.
i find it hard to trust some (if not most) people, other than my family. even with a few friends who call me their ‘best friend’, deep down inside, there is a feeling of loathe and despise. when i’m not with them, it plays in my head, the things they’ve said or done that have hurt me. when i’m with them, these feelings seem to fade away; when i leave, they’re all back again.
of course, the easiest thing i could do is to confront… but i’m afraid of two things: i’ll burst into a bubble of tears, or i’ll just burst. 5 years ago
Even the most recent past… days, weeks, months…
They say time heals all wounds. I’m starting to agree with them.
Fuck you. I’ve hated everything about you for too long. I know I still get under your skin, and now I don’t feel anything towards you at all. That might be the best revenge… 5 years ago
But old wounds still manage to drudge their way back up to the surface… whether it’s a comment that someone makes that brings you back, or a smell, or a song… or a quote from a movie, but sometimes it all comes back. In those times, it gets tough to remember that it’s all in the past and things are better now… and will continue to get better. I’m just trying to remind myself that even though my past has made me the person I am today, it doesn’t define me. It’s over, and I can (and will) be whatever kind of person I want to be. I have potential to do anything, and even though I made some poor decisions in the past, I have to keep looking forward to the future. So… I guess my point is, even though alot of things have happened in the last few days that remind me of my past, I’m doing my best to break the patterns and create an awesome life for myself. Fuck everything else, it no longer matters anyway. 6 years ago
