learn to dance

How I did it: I went to the club a year ago, because my boyfriend really wanted me to experience it. The thing is, I don't know how to dance so I was just sitting down the whole time looking dumb. So I wanted to learn just in case I ever was put in that situation ever again.. I never really put any effort into learning though until I went to the club last night. (I will NEVER step foot in one again). Anyway, the girls there just wiggle their butts… Read how I did it…

How I did it: I went to a social dance near my place that, like most social dances, has a lesson before the open dance.  Important: it's a happening dance that people get addicted to and are passionate about and drag their friends to.  There are a lot of dances that are kind of lackluster.  Don't settle, look for a real scene -- one where you look at people on the floor and go Wow, I can never do what they're doing, but look at that, hol… Read how I did it…

How I did it: I learnt to just commit to the moment, to the music, to my body and just...flow. Why dance like nobody's watching? I dance like EVERYBODY is watching! And if you pick up a few new moves now and then, so much the better. :) Read how I did it…

How I did it: Lessons, once or twice a week, free dancing whenever possible. Practicing is really important. Making mistakes is not a big deal. So just dance, even when you think you cannot yet. Read how I did it…

How I did it: Slowly. Every time we went out, I tried to do one more move--something just slightly different from my comfort zone. Over time (maybe a dozen outings in 6 months), I was just able to move without watching everyone around me. It was a great feeling! Read how I did it…