How I did it: I decided to get involved with the local poly community. It helped a whole lot. You can read articles online about open relationships until your eyes bleed but it was helpful to see other people's dynamics in person. I started dating 2 couples that caught my attention, very casual dates like dinner and board game night. I learned to recognize that putting any intense expectations or instant seriousness about relationships isn't the way to… Read how I did it…
How I did it: If honestly, I always thought that I was a polyamorous person. I has a complete inability to be faithful to anyone, even when I did try my very best not to screw up the relationships. But sadly neither of the relationships worked out or made me happy.Now I am with a wonderful guy and the thing is that I don't even feel the need to be with someone else :) Read how I did it…
How I did it: I was honest with myself and with people I dated about my innate inability to be monogamous. I see no good reason to put the brakes on when I get the feeling I want to get to know a friend even better. I also see no good reason to cheat. I'm not anyone's possession, nor are the people I love. Read how I did it…
